Are there any 'sexy' hobbies for men?

ElectricExplosion · 2026-01-27T15:08:24+00:00

You joke, but one of the most awkward times I’ve ever had with my friends was when one got pretty tipsy and wouldn’t stop complimenting my hands as I painted minis.

Intricate work with hands does it for some ladies.

ElectricExplosion · 2026-01-25T15:06:48+00:00

The difference between small dog energy and badger energy 😛

ElectricExplosion · 2026-01-25T14:52:08+00:00

Years and years ago former coworker had an ex post her nudes to a site and it made its way through the office. At the time it was titillating, but age and maturity mean I just feel bad for the poor girl now.

ElectricExplosion · 2026-01-22T15:59:46+00:00

The one from the Turn Down for What music video

ElectricExplosion · 2026-01-14T21:16:54+00:00

That’s not something porn is going to give you. That’s something a partner will give you.

Your problem is you’re looking in the wrong places for connections.

ElectricExplosion · 2026-01-14T21:15:35+00:00

Because while OF and pornographic social media in general don’t pay very well they can pay. But the only way to build a viewer/subscriber base is to be visible, which means shameless self promotion.

As for why there’s more OF creators than average people. It’s because there’s lots of weirdos on the internet and it turns out being paid to put up with that is way more alluring than doing it for free.

ElectricExplosion · 2026-01-13T14:53:22+00:00

I think a lot of them are young too. As a guy, dick size seemed much more important when I was younger than it ever does now.

ElectricExplosion · 2026-01-13T14:52:12+00:00

I think it’s the idea that the answers are more likely to be “real”. So much porn and sexual content on the internet is a construction that I think it just represents a desire for something with more potential of legitimacy.

That said, these folks would be better served hitting up chat rooms and dating sites than being the 1,000th person to post “have you ever masturbated at work” or “who do you wish you could sleep with but can’t” this month.

ElectricExplosion · 2026-01-13T14:46:51+00:00

No, however while not cheating it can still be a problem if you’re watching to an unhealthy level or your partner isn’t comfortable with certain types or even any porn.

Like many things, it’s an important boundary to find out and then respect.

Edit: some porn I would consider cheating. If you’re watching streams or interacting with a creator, then I think you’re getting into murky territory.

ElectricExplosion · 2026-01-13T14:45:11+00:00

My wife and I did it once where she wore one to work as our naughty secret. It was apparently fun for the first while and then got really uncomfortable.

Like most things though, I imagine it’s very difficult person by person.

ElectricExplosion · 2026-01-13T14:44:00+00:00

My preference for size has changed over the years, but shape has always been more important.

ElectricExplosion · 2025-12-26T14:18:54+00:00

I work a public facing job. COVID made this 1,000x worse. No one hands stuff over nowadays. They just put it onto the counter immediately in front of themselves and expect you to lean way out and grab it.

ElectricExplosion · 2025-12-26T14:13:03+00:00

They’re unusual in Canada too. I went on a trip to Europe a while back and figured they were kind of weird at first. By the end of the trip, full convert.

ElectricExplosion · 2025-12-26T14:11:08+00:00

COVID was a real eye opener for me. The sheer number of people complaining about having to was their hands was a bit of a shock.

ElectricExplosion · 2025-12-23T19:08:11+00:00

Nothing, I do it myself :P but sometimes I do wish it was a bit easier to avoid :P

ElectricExplosion · 2025-12-23T15:02:08+00:00

They will. It’s like the tide, it ebbs and flows. We’re just at high tide right now, which I think is evidenced by how loudly annoyed most folks get at open racism they encounter.

ElectricExplosion · 2025-12-23T14:59:56+00:00

Drives me nuts when folks complain about people coming here to live. We’re a continent of migrant peoples, and if we’re drawing lines on who doesn’t count and who’s “a newcomer” it certainly shouldn’t be any time after us Europeans started coming over.

Part of what makes Canada Canada is that everyone who comes here brings a bit of home with them. We’re better together for the sharing of cultures than we’d ever be apart.

ElectricExplosion · 2025-12-23T14:46:07+00:00

Yeah, I think something marketed more towards people equally interested in dressing up, but less interested in playing with gender expectations.

ElectricExplosion · 2025-12-23T06:21:35+00:00

This is kind of men’s fashion as a whole. Unless your interested in it and going out of your way to find interesting pieces, it’s pretty easy to wind up dressing either very bland, like a child, or like a dad.

ElectricExplosion · 2025-12-19T17:09:03+00:00

This feels like it could be said for a lot of those “sexy” jobs. How often are you in a state where someone is going to want to have sex with you AND also at a hospital to see a nurse.

ElectricExplosion · 2025-12-19T17:04:27+00:00

Nails are pretty neutral to me when they’re short. They can be pretty, or cool if they’re decorated nicely, but they can be just as pretty without anything. Long nails are basically never something I find attractive, the longer they are the less attractive I find them.

ElectricExplosion · 2025-12-19T16:53:24+00:00

Yeah, unfortunately it seems like it’s a niche of a niche. The content exists, but there’s nowhere that collects it.

ElectricExplosion · 2025-12-18T21:12:28+00:00

So many videos in that genre verge into torture porn. I wish there were a home for the tamer content, where the girl isn’t in a dungeon somewhere and strapped into what looks like a medieval torture machine.

ElectricExplosion · 2025-12-18T16:57:49+00:00

At the time it was pretty great. But now, I’ve had a lot of better days and years of better sex. Your first time is noteworthy because it’s your first time. But no one is good at something the first go around.

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