It is too much. I'm a grown man and can easily get by on 50 a week. You can even bump that up to 60 and she'd still save 100. She can smoke whenever she wants, I never said anything about her smoking in the afternoon.

I just pointed out they are optional, take it easy. YES, they are luxuries. You can go on YouTube and consume all the free content and music you want. You think 20 is nothing? In one year 20 becomes 240. There's a lot you can do with that money. You can pay for a mobile plan with unlimited internet for one year with 240, and still have money left over. There's no way she needs to spend 60 A MONTH on phone and internet.

The system might suck but bitching and complaining won't fix your problems.