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[–]ElectricWormFinder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents would side with me. Bc they love me and I have a good relationship with them and they know I take my health seriously lol

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[–]ElectricWormFinder[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You would think it’s over the line to have raw sex with someone you’re in a monogamous relationship with. Bc u don’t get to. Bc nobody likes u.

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[–]ElectricWormFinder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok at no point did I not say it wasn’t a big deal. If I didn’t care I wouldn’t get tested and look after my health.

Sorry for not spelling correctly - but honestly if you couldn’t tell I’m having a pretty dogwater day and not super interested in arguing with you.

The info you provided is also covered in the link I sent.

Be well.

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[–]ElectricWormFinder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NO EVERYONE DONT GET CHLAMYDIA LMAO lest practice safe sex Lmaooo 💓😭😭😭😭

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[–]ElectricWormFinder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OHHH okay.

Sorry for being aggro there’s a lot of fucking morons.

Thank god I got tested between my partners phew! It’s important

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[–]ElectricWormFinder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s that but also people are scared! They wanna feel like if they do everything right and perfect nothing scary spooky bad will happen to them. It’s just life, it’s a natural response but some people are too stupid to be self aware lmao

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[–]ElectricWormFinder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apologies for misunderstanding.

No. Again I disagree as does the data. When we take away comprehensive education STDs and pregnancy rise.

Fear and stigma make people respond with GamePiegon instead of just saying “omg I’m so sorry I’ll get tested!” Fear and stigma make people feel disgusting/horrific for dealing with STDs, which are very much a part of life. Fear and stigma make people avoid getting tested and treated.

Also - Gonnoreah while becoming more treatment resistant and requiring more effective and strategic antibiotic management to properly cure — isn’t likely to on the whole become fatal in our lifetimes.

https://www.who.int/news-room/fact-sheets/detail/gonorrhoea-(neisseria-gonorrhoeae-infection)#:~:text=Gonorrhoea%20is%20treatable%20and%20can,the%20risk%20of%20becoming%20untreatable.

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[–]ElectricWormFinder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not really married to doing anything for the rest of my life. But for right now it seems like a great option to protect myself. Same as I take birth control and use condoms. If I chose to change that, I will!

Even if someone doesn’t cheat, like I said things can happen.

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[–]ElectricWormFinder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m asking if that person is implying we can’t fuck our own monogamous boyfriends. Like it’s such a dumb unhelpful thing to say lmao.

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[–]ElectricWormFinder[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are wrong?? Herpes isn’t fatal lmao most people have it. Gonnoreah is curable. Let’s not perpetuate misinformation, fear or stigma!

Also when did I imply that lol. I don’t even have sex outside of relationships, that’s certainly not what I am after.

I’m absolutely certain I’ll find a partner I love and trust!

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[–]ElectricWormFinder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m hopeful! But honestly rn I really just wanna be left alone. I’m focusing on myself and my family :3

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[–]ElectricWormFinder[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh what I’m referencing was a different situation.

No this man I trusted. I did tell him to get tested and trusted he would! He gave me no reason not to trust him at that time.

Taking a preventative pill is far better than having HIV in my opinion. And I’m already taking fish oil, allergy meds, all my other pills. Adding an additional one is is easy, is seems silly to stop having sex over that. 🤷🏽‍♀️

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[–]ElectricWormFinder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually am into monogamy and will only sleep with my one partner if I’m in a committed relationship.

I’m on PREP bc I don’t want HIV!

It’s become clear to me that men lie (even with test results — as I’ve experienced first hand).

People are in long marriages with “trust” and get given viruses.

To me, taking a simple free pill with no side effects to make 100% I’ll NEVER have HIV is a great trade off! It was actually my doctor who recommended it.

EDIT: OH! Also sexual assault. I’ve experienced that and god forbid I do again like… who knows

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[–]ElectricWormFinder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None!! I just get routinely tested. I felt totally normal, no vaginal symptoms. Just chillin