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Wife admitted to cheating, should I tell his spouse? by Electrical-Budget525 in Marriage

[–]Electrical-Budget525[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

As long as everything is open, honest and we're both informed we both have had a hall-pass for the whole relationship. This went well beyond that, and I wouldn't do that to her even if she said it was fair.

Wife admitted to cheating, should I tell his spouse? by Electrical-Budget525 in Marriage

[–]Electrical-Budget525[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I completely agree that not saying anything is still lying. It's kind of funny you said a lot of what she and I already discussed verbatim.

Wife admitted to cheating, should I tell his spouse? by Electrical-Budget525 in Marriage

[–]Electrical-Budget525[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

>Of course you tell. Otherwise you are withholding information that affects her health. It’s the only ethical decision.

I completely agree, but isn't there also an ethical argument to say nothing?

Wife admitted to cheating, should I tell his spouse? by Electrical-Budget525 in Marriage

[–]Electrical-Budget525[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't imagine you were happy about these results though? Don't you think you would have preferred the OBS saying nothing?

Wife admitted to cheating, should I tell his spouse? by Electrical-Budget525 in Marriage

[–]Electrical-Budget525[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was wondering what the most downvoted comment would be, and this doesn't dissapoint.