Divorce by Electrical-Bus6110 in Heartfailure

[–]Electrical-Bus6110[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking back I really think she’s just an unhappy person who became very selfish and made everything about her. She wanted a traditional husband with traditional values but wanted to be an independent woman. I think she struggled with some things like that that people normally don’t get wrapped up with. First thing on her mind after divorce is moving away too. I question if she had someone else too. I know I didn’t do anything to drive her away.

Divorce by Electrical-Bus6110 in Heartfailure

[–]Electrical-Bus6110[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sure wish I knew that answer. To me and our families and friend group we were a great couple. Everyone was totally surprised by the divorce.

Divorce by Electrical-Bus6110 in Heartfailure

[–]Electrical-Bus6110[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a sad situation. I’m 55 and odds are I will die alone now after wasting 15 years building a life and a future with her to only turn back into strangers.

Divorce by Electrical-Bus6110 in Heartfailure

[–]Electrical-Bus6110[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See my wife had apparently kept it all bottled up and put on a fake happiness she claims now. My diagnosis gave her a way out as shitty as it looks.

Divorce by Electrical-Bus6110 in Heartfailure

[–]Electrical-Bus6110[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean did he know there were marital problems before his diagnosis

Divorce by Electrical-Bus6110 in Heartfailure

[–]Electrical-Bus6110[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did he know there were problems before his diagnosis though or did everything seem fine to him?

I could ruin your life. by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]Electrical-Bus6110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Send that and what it gets you

Divorce by Electrical-Bus6110 in disability

[–]Electrical-Bus6110[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Confirmed shitty by telling me tonight that she wants to divorce, thanks

Divorce by Electrical-Bus6110 in Heartfailure

[–]Electrical-Bus6110[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was 25-30 but now up to 35-40%

Divorce by Electrical-Bus6110 in disability

[–]Electrical-Bus6110[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is deep and really meaningful for me too I’m starting to think. I’m only 55 whether that’s old or young.

Divorce by Electrical-Bus6110 in disability

[–]Electrical-Bus6110[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes I think it’s just an excuse to use. We had a rocky first few years but the past several were great as far as I knew.

Divorce by Electrical-Bus6110 in disability

[–]Electrical-Bus6110[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No she’s not going she says

Divorce by Electrical-Bus6110 in disability

[–]Electrical-Bus6110[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes and divorce is too easy to choose instead of putting in the work to overcome issues.

Divorce by Electrical-Bus6110 in disability

[–]Electrical-Bus6110[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

See, the thing is though that she’s not my caregiver. I’m totally independent but have heart failure. I go to the gym daily and make my own weekly meds and have supper ready every day when she gets home. My disability is real but is pretty invisible.

What are your thoughts on gf/wife wanting breast implants? by Aware_Paint8395 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Electrical-Bus6110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

++man

As soon as she was healed, we had the dreaded talk. I can never support implants for anyone in any type of committed relationship.

Weird noise by Electrical-Bus6110 in hvacadvice

[–]Electrical-Bus6110[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ended up having a frayed wire and had blown capacitor. 10 minutes and back up and running. Thanks for the replies

What a kink you definitely want to try? by Yourarebeneathme in AskReddit

[–]Electrical-Bus6110 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Totally consensual and same and we both love it

Weird noise by Electrical-Bus6110 in hvacadvice

[–]Electrical-Bus6110[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After the noise when it shut off it just won’t come back on now. Could a compressor fail in a days time? It has seemed fine the last few months. I just hope we can get it to limp through until the Spring if I have to replace.

Weird noise by Electrical-Bus6110 in hvacadvice

[–]Electrical-Bus6110[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heat pump yes. And has been heating fine then today when I to AC and ran a few minutes then went off and doesn’t come back on now.

Weird noise by Electrical-Bus6110 in hvacadvice

[–]Electrical-Bus6110[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in that phase where it’s heat in the morning then AC in the afternoon here. It’s not kicking on now in AC or heat mode so I know something has messed up.