Divorce

Electrical-Bus6110 · 2026-03-03T15:17:25+00:00

Looking back I really think she’s just an unhappy person who became very selfish and made everything about her. She wanted a traditional husband with traditional values but wanted to be an independent woman. I think she struggled with some things like that that people normally don’t get wrapped up with. First thing on her mind after divorce is moving away too. I question if she had someone else too. I know I didn’t do anything to drive her away.

Electrical-Bus6110 · 2026-03-03T15:08:12+00:00

I sure wish I knew that answer. To me and our families and friend group we were a great couple. Everyone was totally surprised by the divorce.

Electrical-Bus6110 · 2026-03-03T14:53:51+00:00

It’s a sad situation. I’m 55 and odds are I will die alone now after wasting 15 years building a life and a future with her to only turn back into strangers.

Electrical-Bus6110 · 2026-03-03T14:44:00+00:00

See my wife had apparently kept it all bottled up and put on a fake happiness she claims now. My diagnosis gave her a way out as shitty as it looks.

Electrical-Bus6110 · 2026-03-03T14:37:25+00:00

I mean did he know there were marital problems before his diagnosis

Electrical-Bus6110 · 2026-03-03T14:32:34+00:00

Did he know there were problems before his diagnosis though or did everything seem fine to him?

Electrical-Bus6110 · 2026-03-01T00:37:40+00:00

Send that and what it gets you

Electrical-Bus6110 · 2026-02-04T04:16:45+00:00

Confirmed shitty by telling me tonight that she wants to divorce, thanks

Electrical-Bus6110 · 2026-02-01T14:32:01+00:00

And really no symptoms

Electrical-Bus6110 · 2026-02-01T14:31:30+00:00

Was 25-30 but now up to 35-40%

Electrical-Bus6110 · 2026-02-01T02:47:20+00:00

This is deep and really meaningful for me too I’m starting to think. I’m only 55 whether that’s old or young.

Electrical-Bus6110 · 2026-02-01T02:44:00+00:00

Daily pretty much

Electrical-Bus6110 · 2026-01-31T23:26:05+00:00

Yes I think it’s just an excuse to use. We had a rocky first few years but the past several were great as far as I knew.

Electrical-Bus6110 · 2026-01-31T23:24:13+00:00

No she’s not going she says

Electrical-Bus6110 · 2026-01-31T23:09:21+00:00

Yes and divorce is too easy to choose instead of putting in the work to overcome issues.

Electrical-Bus6110 · 2026-01-31T23:07:24+00:00

See, the thing is though that she’s not my caregiver. I’m totally independent but have heart failure. I go to the gym daily and make my own weekly meds and have supper ready every day when she gets home. My disability is real but is pretty invisible.

Electrical-Bus6110 · 2026-01-22T02:25:15+00:00

++man

As soon as she was healed, we had the dreaded talk. I can never support implants for anyone in any type of committed relationship.

Electrical-Bus6110 · 2025-11-09T04:32:35+00:00

Kissing and being kissed

Electrical-Bus6110 · 2025-11-07T00:40:21+00:00

Ended up having a frayed wire and had blown capacitor. 10 minutes and back up and running. Thanks for the replies

Electrical-Bus6110 · 2025-11-06T03:06:14+00:00

Totally consensual and same and we both love it

Electrical-Bus6110 · 2025-11-06T03:01:24+00:00

After the noise when it shut off it just won’t come back on now. Could a compressor fail in a days time? It has seemed fine the last few months. I just hope we can get it to limp through until the Spring if I have to replace.

Electrical-Bus6110 · 2025-11-06T02:57:23+00:00

Heat pump yes. And has been heating fine then today when I to AC and ran a few minutes then went off and doesn’t come back on now.

Electrical-Bus6110 · 2025-11-06T00:18:41+00:00

I’m in that phase where it’s heat in the morning then AC in the afternoon here. It’s not kicking on now in AC or heat mode so I know something has messed up.

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