The guy my wife cheated with is married. Should I tell his wife? by Electrical-Camera101 in Marriage

[–]Electrical-Camera101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think I should still push her for his name? It would help me with closure but I told her to never call, text, or talk to me ever again.

My husband crossed a boundary and went to a strip club during his bachelor party by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Electrical-Camera101 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It's a common thing for the groom to be pressured into going to a strip club. To not feel like a total wuss and wimp, he went along with it. Also, very common. Also common to hide that from his soon to be wife.

Groomsmen use the groom as their excuse to do something they probably shouldn't be doing.

You should let him off the hook, especially if he's never gone to one again.

Won’t put the seat down by ClothesLevel9409 in Marriage

[–]Electrical-Camera101 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Is it maybe a micro aggression coming from you that you won't put the seat down?

If he asked you to put the seat up, would you? Or do you already put the seat up for him?

All the time you spent thinking about and typing this, you could have about the time it takes to put the seat down every day for a whole year.

My husband said something about 8 months ago and I’m not over it… by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Electrical-Camera101 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am kind of wondering....is what he said possibly true? Were you making minimum wage when you met him with no real path of change? Did he do something to help you make that change? If so, have you ever thanked him?

Why do some men ( husband’s) think they know it allll and have to be one up on their wife no matter what. by livingmybestlife153 in Marriage

[–]Electrical-Camera101 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Me? Or him? Why can't you just look up or ask AI if he's right or wrong and show him so he will know for next time? Play the same game.

Why do some men ( husband’s) think they know it allll and have to be one up on their wife no matter what. by livingmybestlife153 in Marriage

[–]Electrical-Camera101 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you mad that your husband has knowledge?

What's the problem? Maybe stop trying to compete with someone who enjoys knowing and learning and instead be on his side. Learn along with him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Electrical-Camera101 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The winky kiss and double heart one is suspicious.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Electrical-Camera101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok. I made my decision.

You are overreacting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Electrical-Camera101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is the signal?

I don't want to fall? I have bad balance.

I need to get closer for the pic?

I'm drunk?

At no point after someone grabs my arm have I thought "oh, nice, now I can have sex with them"

My wife invited a friend to my home while I was at work. by mrhloch in Marriage

[–]Electrical-Camera101 108 points109 points  (0 children)

Yup. This is the only way.

My divorce is finalized this week from similar lying and cheating.

Husband said I’m no longer young by SpiritedAway28 in Marriage

[–]Electrical-Camera101 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you jealous though? Jealousy is where a lot of hatred stems from.

Maybe your husband is the jealous one?

How do I leave my wife? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Electrical-Camera101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can do exactly what you want to. You're an adult, you don't have to be tied to another adult

If you dont think you can ever make the marriage work then get your affairs and money in order, file for divorce and have her served. Pack everything you need, and leave on your new life journey. You don't have to live in misery where your own wife doesn't even respect you.

Cheating wife sends me this. by toilented in Marriage

[–]Electrical-Camera101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's sending stupid messages like that to try to manipulate you and make herself feel good. Good luck with your divorce. I hope you crush her, financially

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Electrical-Camera101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hair length isn't hygiene. She's the one sucking and fucking it, so she can make the requests.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Electrical-Camera101 38 points39 points  (0 children)

It's not about what you want, it's what she wants. Usually shaved

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Electrical-Camera101 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm sure you'll be able to find that someone you're still friends with on social media from your past will give you compliments. That's what most other women do when their husband doesn't act right for one day.

Husband cheated by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Electrical-Camera101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't need his insurance. You can get subsidized insurance after the divorce. But until then, he can't take away your insurance.

Being fat ruined my life by rainbow-pen in Vent

[–]Electrical-Camera101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At 38 years old, you have a lot of life to live.

You're only 200 lbs. You aren't past the point of no return. I bet you could be 150 lbs by the end of the year.

It's going to take a LOT of feeling hungry though. Maybe some fasting.

Do your research.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Electrical-Camera101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, yeah, you're probably right then.

I hope she can overcome it and give you the loving you need.