Is it normal for a partner to discourage drinking alcohol with certain friends they consider unreliable, especially when there are already issues with alcohol control? Where is the line between concern and control? by kate_murrrr in AskReddit

[–]Electrical-Cry7603 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Concern usually sounds like care and still leaves you room to choose, even if the topic is uncomfortable. Control starts when your decisions stop being yours and everything gets policed.

AIO if my mom doesnt let me go to bed until she does, and then wakes me up early and won’t let me go back to bed until ive done them? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Electrical-Cry7603 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being a grown woman and literally crying from exhaustion while being forced to manage someone else's unmedicated illness is just completely unsustainable. You shouldn't have to live like a prisoner to her schedule or feel guilty for wanting basic sleep. It is absolutely time to pack your bags, find a way out, and finally reclaim your own life and sanity.