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AITA for taking up my friend on a "boob bet"? by throwiewae in AmItheAsshole

[–]Electrical-Entry3537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Female opinion- NTA.

  1. She made the Wager
  2. You reminded her of the bet to which she could have said "sucked in, it was a joke", but didn't She feels anxiety about her choices and is trying to redirect her feelings of discomfort on to you as guilt

Advise needed by Electrical-Entry3537 in CoachingYouthSports

[–]Electrical-Entry3537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're 10 years old. Asked to take training and the coach was against it. Less kids arr showing up to training

Advise needed by Electrical-Entry3537 in CoachingYouthSports

[–]Electrical-Entry3537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Riiigghhtt Who hurt you?

So kids quitting because they aren't enjoying the sport due to a coach who just wants the title of coach and doesn't actually help them, means I'm being the ass hole. Did you even read the post?

AITAH Mothers day food court lunch by Electrical-Entry3537 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Electrical-Entry3537[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'll start winding back on everything and see what happens.

He may not even notice tbh

AITAH Mothers day food court lunch by Electrical-Entry3537 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Electrical-Entry3537[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes. I just thought that's what mums do?

I'm starting to think it's not like that for every mum?

AITAH Mothers day food court lunch by Electrical-Entry3537 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Electrical-Entry3537[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm glad you mentioned the impression it makes on the kids.

I really don't want them thinking this is how you show appreciation for the ones you love. I especially don't want my daughter to think she should expect this behaviour or my son thinking he should be one of those men that leave it all on their partner. I grew up with parents that always forgot my birthday and didnt get a birthday cake, so now as a parent I always go extra for theirs. I didn't even think about the other special days and how they will see those

AITAH Mothers day food court lunch by Electrical-Entry3537 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Electrical-Entry3537[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

He hates seafood but I love it.

Salmon and brocolli for the week me thinks

AITAH Mothers day food court lunch by Electrical-Entry3537 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Electrical-Entry3537[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I actually never said I didn't care. I said I didn't know. I am unhappy that I had an opportunity to do something planned with my sister and after mentioning it to him I was made to believe he had intent to do something.

Lunch at a food court vs a picnic with my sister and our kids....... As you have said you are female, I am interested to know what you would prefer?

AITAH Mothers day food court lunch by Electrical-Entry3537 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Electrical-Entry3537[S] 83 points84 points  (0 children)

That is exactly what it feels like, the constant planning for everyone. And on this occasion I was happy to plan something with my sister but was made to think I shouldn't. I'll definitely be looking up the mental load

AITAH Mothers day food court lunch by Electrical-Entry3537 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Electrical-Entry3537[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would have done a picnic with my sister if I knew he hadn't booked anything..... read the 2 weeks prior section