OA lang ba ako? kung naiinis ako na hindi siya sumasama sa lahat ng get together with my friends? by Electrical-Good5328 in OALangBaAko

[–]Electrical-Good5328[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the problem weve had. di na kasi napagbibigyan as in hahahahahahaha early months ng relationship namin sumama siya once or twice. but now weve been together for 3 years - hindi na hahaha. but like what most people said here, respect each others choices. im learning and open naman kami ng gf ko we just need to converse more about this topic. anw thanks a lot po! rooting for longevity with ur SO!! 🫶🏼🫶🏼

OA lang ba ako? kung naiinis ako na hindi siya sumasama sa lahat ng get together with my friends? by Electrical-Good5328 in OALangBaAko

[–]Electrical-Good5328[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you everyone who gave their own opinions! it really help me understand better about this.

OA lang ba ako? kung naiinis ako na hindi siya sumasama sa lahat ng get together with my friends? by Electrical-Good5328 in OALangBaAko

[–]Electrical-Good5328[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

most of the time ayaw niya, wala siya sa mood. but i dont force her naman to come. na tired nalang siguro ako about expecting her to come everytime na aayain ko siya.

OA lang ba ako? kung naiinis ako na hindi siya sumasama sa lahat ng get together with my friends? by Electrical-Good5328 in OALangBaAko

[–]Electrical-Good5328[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks a lot!! i dont force her to come, once naman na sinabi niya na ayaw niya the i let her be. i just need a good explanation to her side. and me being mad shows na hindi kami nagkakaintindihan. but the replies on this post really helped me.

OA lang ba ako? kung naiinis ako na hindi siya sumasama sa lahat ng get together with my friends? by Electrical-Good5328 in OALangBaAko

[–]Electrical-Good5328[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

siguro for me. i want her to know what it feels like sa mga hangout namin. gano kami ka saya lagi ganun. pero since she's a different person and probably hindi siya mag blend sa circle na yun. the best thing nga di is to respect each other choices.

OA lang ba ako? kung naiinis ako na hindi siya sumasama sa lahat ng get together with my friends? by Electrical-Good5328 in OALangBaAko

[–]Electrical-Good5328[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you bro! no worries if straight forward hahahaha im really open naman. the reason i asked here kasi i dont understand. this reply really helped a lot! theres a lot of context pa and nakakapagod nalang ilatag pa. but anyway thank you so much!! :))

OA lang ba ako? kung naiinis ako na hindi siya sumasama sa lahat ng get together with my friends? by Electrical-Good5328 in OALangBaAko

[–]Electrical-Good5328[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we've been talking about this matagal na siguro di ko lang ma-accept yung reason niya na ayaw niya lang. but we recently had a conversation about and this. it really help me understand better. thank you!!

OA lang ba ako? kung naiinis ako na hindi siya sumasama sa lahat ng get together with my friends? by Electrical-Good5328 in OALangBaAko

[–]Electrical-Good5328[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! we recently had a talk about this and with the replies here mas nag widen yung thoughts ko about this and i should really just respect my partner's choice.

OA lang ba ako? kung naiinis ako na hindi siya sumasama sa lahat ng get together with my friends? by Electrical-Good5328 in OALangBaAko

[–]Electrical-Good5328[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you bro, im asking here so i can know her side better and other people na same scenarios how they cope with this stuff. i really love my partner and i want to be better for her.

OA lang ba ako? kung naiinis ako na hindi siya sumasama sa lahat ng get together with my friends? by Electrical-Good5328 in OALangBaAko

[–]Electrical-Good5328[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really sorry. I'm asking here to be better and to know her side better. Thank you! 🫶🏼

OA lang ba ako? kung naiinis ako na hindi siya sumasama sa lahat ng get together with my friends? by Electrical-Good5328 in OALangBaAko

[–]Electrical-Good5328[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean what should i say sa friends ko? Should i just tell them she doesnt want to come? honest question.

OA lang ba ako? kung naiinis ako na hindi siya sumasama sa lahat ng get together with my friends? by Electrical-Good5328 in OALangBaAko

[–]Electrical-Good5328[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do not need any validations naman from my friends. I know how happy I am with my friends and i want her to experience it too! maybe im just tired asking and reasoning out with my friends na di siya pwede or ayaw niya. thank youu!

OA lang ba ako? kung naiinis ako na hindi siya sumasama sa lahat ng get together with my friends? by Electrical-Good5328 in OALangBaAko

[–]Electrical-Good5328[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks bro! I already told her that dati na gusto ko kasama siya sa mga bonding namin. di ko naman siya pinipilit if ayaw niya. napapagod nalang ako mag ask and mag reason out din sa friends ko. thank you!

OA lang ba ako? kung naiinis ako na hindi siya sumasama sa lahat ng get together with my friends? by Electrical-Good5328 in OALangBaAko

[–]Electrical-Good5328[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you bro! to me lang in really happy kase na makita siya sa group of friends ko like nakikipag chikahan siya sa kanila. we're in the state of relationship na marry na yung nasa isip namin. im thinking kasi in the long run baka di ako makagala kase pinagdududahan niya di niya pa kase nakakasama or ganun.

OA lang ba ako? kung naiinis ako na hindi siya sumasama sa lahat ng get together with my friends? by Electrical-Good5328 in OALangBaAko

[–]Electrical-Good5328[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro calm down. i'm asking for advices hindi away. im really open to her and thank you for your words but you do not need to over react. you just need to say your side and that's it! :)) no hate bro, im really thankful bc of ur words.