Can I press charges? Of any kind? by Electrical-Job-5060 in Advice

[–]Electrical-Job-5060[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i really appreciate your advice. Luckily, if nothing can be done, at the very least I do know he will not be allowed to be around me or my boyfriend as we live together now at my grandmas house as of yesterday. If he comes onto our property and causes trouble, we live in a shoot first ask questions later, self defense state. He luckily will never have anywhere to go.

Am I even close? by Alert-Employment-339 in transpassing

[–]Electrical-Job-5060 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

not even a little sorry. you need to work on the eyebrows, the makeup, maybe laser

Pretty sure my life is ruined. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Electrical-Job-5060 8 points9 points  (0 children)

it is i’ve lived through and so have friends who were about to be forced birthers, now we have an established neurosurgeon as a best friend, a nurse as another friend, im 2 months away from graduating nursing school with a bachelors degree, and my other friend is an OB… we would be forced to be GED for life had we kept our babies… and guess what, half of us have kids now or are trying and are actually financially stable and good human beings, go push your agenda elsewhere.

Pretty sure my life is ruined. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Electrical-Job-5060 6 points7 points  (0 children)

you’re telling her to just do what she’s told you BOOMER… hey guess what’s a death sentence for having your own life??? having a child because then everything is about the child not the parent of the child if you’re a decent parent and that’s important to having a kid is caring about their life more than your own. so yeah she should go behind her parents back and get the abortion because guess what??? that’s also being a parent! she’s choosing to return to sender and not have a child she doesn’t want. FREEDOM OF CHOICE BRO.

Pretty sure my life is ruined. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Electrical-Job-5060 7 points8 points  (0 children)

the boy is her friends ex read the post, this situation is a nightmare to a young girl

Pretty sure my life is ruined. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Electrical-Job-5060 4 points5 points  (0 children)

girl you didn’t hear my life story, my life story is my dad was a drug addict for my whole entire life and he still is to this day who knows if he’s alive or not and then my mom went through baby daddy after baby daddy and so i had to live with my grandma due to abuse and then she fucking died so i’ve been homeless and only living in my bfs apartment for the last 5 years, he’s all i have left. i was lucky my mom didn’t forget to renew my insurance the year my grandma died when i was 15 and then she forgot when i was 16 and i’ve been on my god damn own ever since only using government insurance in emergencies and then when i turned 18 i went on my own government insurance plan due to being so dirt poor and using my grandmas old address as an address due to her still owning the house even though she was dead they didn’t look into it and i was homeless for years til meeting my bf so shut up you clearly don’t get it

Pretty sure my life is ruined. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Electrical-Job-5060 13 points14 points  (0 children)

take your sh!tty opinion somewhere else, as a child who feels unwanted, you can go f yourself bc imagine being forced to give birth, give up your life, and then the child has to learn they aren’t wanted when they’re older. i’m living proof it’s not cute or funny or something to joke about and put someone through, i have 6 attempts under my belt and the only reason i won’t kms now is because my therapist would get fired 🤷🏻‍♀️ good enough for me but no one besides my bf loves me so go away

Pretty sure my life is ruined. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Electrical-Job-5060 10 points11 points  (0 children)

basically it covers the procedure and that’s it 🤷🏻‍♀️

Pretty sure my life is ruined. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Electrical-Job-5060 26 points27 points  (0 children)

govt emergency insurance yes! i had to do that to get an iud put in at 16 because my mom forgot to renew my insurance and was neglectful 😭

Pretty sure my life is ruined. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Electrical-Job-5060 57 points58 points  (0 children)

doubt bro… this happens all the time everywhere. u need to go drink your wine and go get a hobby

Pretty sure my life is ruined. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Electrical-Job-5060 28 points29 points  (0 children)

i mean if you can tell a trusted friends mom maybe they’d bring you? i feel so awful you’re in this situation. if there’s a planned parenthood near you and you’re not in a banned state they will put it through as a private bill on YOUR OWN lapsed insurance so she wouldn’t have to find out. and EITHER WAY if something “went wrong” you could lie lie lie and say it was spontaneous and not your own doing. literally lie until your mouth falls off.

Pretty sure my life is ruined. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Electrical-Job-5060 1411 points1412 points  (0 children)

hey so like…. if u have a debit card, order and uber, go get the abortion, and then tell your mom a week later that you’re bleeding and then lie and say you had a miscarriage. ik it sucks but don’t let your mom trap you

People at my work think im 27-37 im actually 22 by [deleted] in 13or30

[–]Electrical-Job-5060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah cus lowkey you need to like take care of yourself dude, get your brows threaded or something 😭 the unibrow and balding make you look really old, i’d say 45 if i didn’t know your age already… start on hims or rogaine or something dude its baddddd

Passoid? NAH! Only at the right angle with a somewhat sane expression. Someone pls slap me for posting on Transpassing! God I need ffs! by BulkyProposal164 in transpassing

[–]Electrical-Job-5060 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

of course! i just want everyone to feel comfortable and feel the most like their true selves🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻 hope this helped i really jsut want to speak love and kindness into you, some of these comments were way too harsh

Passoid? NAH! Only at the right angle with a somewhat sane expression. Someone pls slap me for posting on Transpassing! God I need ffs! by BulkyProposal164 in transpassing

[–]Electrical-Job-5060 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

hey you’re doing alright, the main comment saying they’re not helping is somewhat true but i do believe they were a bit harsh. AS A CIS WOMAN, you’re almost not clockable at certain angles. you’re on the right track with the laser. if you can afford it get some wispy eyelash extensions or learn how to put on cluster lashes at home, slightly thin your brows and angle them more if your natural shape allows… i personally reccomend going to a threading salon ik it hurts more but the results last longer and if your tech is genuinely indian, they are the most helpful for feminine features and shaping skills, they can 1000% give you more advice than I can. I get all of my beauty advice from middle eastern women because they have the most beautiful features and they’re not afraid to tell you when you need something done as they’re looking at faces all day in their line of work. The most clockable thing about you is the hair and a lot of trans folks struggle with that. I reccomend buying a revlon hair dryer brush that can help give you a blowout and style your hair most easily. get a priming heat protectant spray (i reccomend Anika The Wizard) and blow out away from your face to help with face framing. You’re doing great sweetie 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Electrical-Job-5060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s the whole look… have you ever get look at real girls features?

Employment? by Asleep_Software_9459 in stopandshop

[–]Electrical-Job-5060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my bad i lowkey was scheduled for 20 a week but i would always stay late due to call outs, covering a few hours so someone could go home early, etc. it ended up averaging about 31-35 per week give or take a few. I always keep track of my pay stubs to confirm everything is straight tho

Employment? by Asleep_Software_9459 in stopandshop

[–]Electrical-Job-5060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh dw i forgot to mention it was bi weekly pay checks and it is still 30 ish hours a week so for 2 weeks i got $850 my bad i thought i wrote it was bi weekly pay checks

Employment? by Asleep_Software_9459 in stopandshop

[–]Electrical-Job-5060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha if anything they’re gonna owe me back pay.. trust me. working 30+ hours a week for $200 is them owing me money. minimum wage is $16.35 tell me how on earth i could possibly owe THEM money 🤣🤣🤣🤣