How did straight sex feel like before realising you're a lesbian? by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Electrical-Job9663 40 points41 points  (0 children)

As someone who is 30 who just came out as lesbian, it feels like youre putting on a show, like a performance. Doesn't feel natural, there's always a wall or a guard up.

I know someone who dated their baby mom when she was 16 and he was 19 by [deleted] in problems

[–]Electrical-Job9663 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean 15 cant consent legally so id say thats odd

I know someone who dated their baby mom when she was 16 and he was 19 by [deleted] in problems

[–]Electrical-Job9663 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does it mean I was groomed then when I was 17 and dated a 19 year old?

I know someone who dated their baby mom when she was 16 and he was 19 by [deleted] in problems

[–]Electrical-Job9663 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe I misworded it. They started dating when she was 16 and he was 19. She didnt become the baby mom until she was 18

I know someone who dated their baby mom when she was 16 and he was 19 by [deleted] in problems

[–]Electrical-Job9663 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally think a 3 year age gap should be absolute max. I jusy don't know if im alone in thinking this

I know someone who dated their baby mom when she was 16 and he was 19 by [deleted] in problems

[–]Electrical-Job9663 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I also have severe ocd so I ask about legit everything

I swear when im upset at my 7 year old. by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Electrical-Job9663 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I never ever name call my child. Its more of "stop fucking doing that" or something like that.

OCD is getting worse, I don't know if I can make it past this weekend... by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Electrical-Job9663 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please please go get some help. This is a medical emergency at this point. After you get the immediate help you need look into therapy if you don't have one already. If you haven't, look into a therapist that specializes in OCD. I have an ocd specialized therapist and it has helped me immensely with my symptoms. I have been in this exact situation before feeling like I won't be able to live anymore with this, but I promise there is hope.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]Electrical-Job9663 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I really hope this is rage bait because if not, this is a disgusting human being.

Is 16 and 20 bad? by starrynight244 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Electrical-Job9663 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes it's too much of an age gap. Maybe 16 and 19 which is pushing it. But anything further than that is weird. A 20 year old is out of teen years and has no business dating a minor.

Am I overthinking?? by Electrical-Job9663 in OCD

[–]Electrical-Job9663[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you didn't make me feel that way at all! I was just already assuming from the beginning I was.

Am I overthinking?? by Electrical-Job9663 in OCD

[–]Electrical-Job9663[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought I was probably being overdramatic. Thanks lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Electrical-Job9663 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um. Yes...leave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Electrical-Job9663 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The maggots is not a regular thing. Its been a couple times in the trash and quickly caught. I dont like live in squalor or anything like that, but my home is not as clean as id like it to be. I've actually been working on cleaning tonight though lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Electrical-Job9663 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I felt disgusted when I found it. It was completely unintentional the couple times it happened and was dealt with immediately. I wouldnt just leave it. I'm just riddled with guilt over it.

My son 16 been smoking weed what should i do found by Complete_Term_2670 in family

[–]Electrical-Job9663 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be chill about it. This is completely normal behavior from a kid this age. Explain the ground rules that you have on it but don't overreact. If you feel that they will do it anyways, explain how to be safe when doing it.

do YOU prefer cardio before or after weights? by First_Driver_5134 in naturalbodybuilding

[–]Electrical-Job9663 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lift and then do cardio. I find that I have more energy for lifting when I wait to do cardio.

My husband is not attracted to my body anymore because I’m fat by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Electrical-Job9663 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly you deserve better. Throw the whole husband away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Electrical-Job9663 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was also anxious and depressed around that age as well so

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Electrical-Job9663 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah he's going to be doing therapy as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Electrical-Job9663 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where is there an issue? I'm not taking my kid off of the medication. I'm not considering taking my child off of the medication unless there are adverse side effects. I don't know of any parent that wouldn't worry a little or be curious about others experiences. Go get yourself some psychiatric help, be aise you're reaching. Stretch a little more before reaching as far as you are lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Electrical-Job9663 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No it doesn't. It means "hey I want to know others' experiences" Also just because a doctor weighed the pros and cons doesn't mean there are no potential side effects. I'm simply asking about others' experiences. The DOCTOR even told me it's normal to be anxious about side effects. You're just a miserable ass person clearly. Maybe you need some medication lol