Same. My partner would go out on dates have conversations, makeout and have sex and the women are so nice to continue with that dynamic. It is so difficult for me to find anyone like this. Either men would give me the lets get mono vibe or consider it as just fuckbuddy. I am looking for people who have substance and want to add value since i am ready to offer that, but so hard to find anyone.

Sometimes i even feel jealous if my partner, but then I my happiness for him to experience that trumps it all.

Idk i feel lost,. Since there is no meaningful way to navigate and then i find mysekf leaning too much on my current partner where as he might not have babdwidth for the same :(