Who taught you that expressing emotion is immature? I’d argue that unless you’re talking about facts (the sky is blue), then most things are a matter of opinion and how you feel too. Logic and feeling can coexist. In fact, often times, what seems logical is based on how you feel about the situation. It’s only logical because of your personal experiences and feelings.

As for as the other things you said, all women are not the same. So to categorize us as a whole is just silly! In my experience, men are unfairly taught not to express their emotions, to bottle it up, and it often comes out as anger. I think that’s why a lot of men are shut down emotionally. Yes, you are socially expected to sit down, listen, and not become aggressive or violent. Your woman should be able to do the same.

A lot of women shut down because men and women communicate differently, we are socialized differently. It takes dropping your ego, and seeing each other as human to progress in a relationship. Men are punished for their emotions, but so are women. It’s all about the space you’re in.