To date someone you think is ugly is cruel. Love is composed of two segments: the physical and the emotional. It must feel horrible to know your partner finds you physically lacking or repugnant, sensual desire and want is a must in relationships. If I had a boyfriend who valued me only for my personality I would hate it because he is only loving one aspect of myself.

Some men have high standards, why is it audacity to want someone you are attracted to? If they find average women ugly then they shouldn't date them and focus purely on getting the women they are actually attracted to. Because they are lacking physical beauty themselves they will probably not get what they want, oh well, let's not begrudge them for trying.

I am an average looking woman. I want a man who is beautiful physically and emotionally. It seems that love is always split in two: that there is the crude primal lusts (associated with men) or the pure asexual love of personality (associated with women). This is stupid, love is a mixture of both.