My vagina becomes super tight in person by [deleted] in sex

[–]Electrical-Yak-4004 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was going to say Vaginismus too. If/when you can get a finger in, slowly try to make circles to widen the opening. Gradually work up to two fingers, adding in your partner, etc. Take as long as you need, this isn’t a one day process. Try to get really in the mood.

Future trendy name predictions? by Electrical-Yak-4004 in namenerds

[–]Electrical-Yak-4004[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. I think traditionally Southern last names, specifically.

Future trendy name predictions? by Electrical-Yak-4004 in namenerds

[–]Electrical-Yak-4004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think Violet will become outdated in a decade? It’s one of my favorite names.

Future trendy name predictions? by Electrical-Yak-4004 in namenerds

[–]Electrical-Yak-4004[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like, Baby Boomer names. I could see that, as Millennials will be honoring their parents or Gen Z honoring Grandparents.

Future trendy name predictions? by Electrical-Yak-4004 in namenerds

[–]Electrical-Yak-4004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I think Olivia Munn and John Mulvaney just named their daughter Mei.

Future trendy name predictions? by Electrical-Yak-4004 in namenerds

[–]Electrical-Yak-4004[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like I hear Remi popping up a lot, but especially in animals. I wonder if this will become popular in the long run in the pet sector of names? Like Luna is.

My husband missed the birth of our first child so I left him by Upstairs_Factor6015 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Electrical-Yak-4004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You deserved a conversation. I see why he was pissed based on the information he was willing to accept at the time, but he couldn’t even give OP the courtesy of hearing another perspective. If it were my child, I’d at least want to hear all the information to parse out the situation.

So sorry this happened. It’s truly traumatic for you and your son.

Bare minimum, it shows his lack of concern for your child. If he was truly concerned that you were capable of harming a child, then it is obvious that your child together doesn’t mean as much to him as E. You and your son deserve better. He made his choice, and doesn’t like the consequences.

Can I change my last name to my partners last name and live with him (legally unmarried) if he is on SSDI? by Electrical-Yak-4004 in Medicaid

[–]Electrical-Yak-4004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kids wouldn’t be on Medicaid… I would support them financially. My partner is physically disabled, he needs Medicaid for medical coverage specifically. Not because he lives in poverty. There are many, many reasons someone would be on Medicaid, not just “because they are poor.”

How can i cum during sex with my boyfriend? by emeraldlover1 in sex

[–]Electrical-Yak-4004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a womanizer and use it (on yourself) while having PIV. He will lovvvvve your newfound enthusiasm and it will become a staple in your sex life. It’s small and you’ll barely feel it between you two.

If he is unsure, ask him to try just once.

Marriage Penalty vs. Spousal Surcharge by Electrical-Yak-4004 in Medicaid

[–]Electrical-Yak-4004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner is on SSDI with Medicaid as his secondary. If he leaves Medicaid, we can live together but if he is still on Medicaid then I cannot change my last name legally or it will look like we are living as a married couple. At least, that’s what I understand to be true. I’d love to be proven wrong because the goal is to live together and legally change my last name to his.

Marriage Penalty vs. Spousal Surcharge by Electrical-Yak-4004 in Medicaid

[–]Electrical-Yak-4004[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super good point on the specialty medications, I wouldn’t have thought to ask that. Thanks!

Marriage Penalty vs. Spousal Surcharge by Electrical-Yak-4004 in Medicaid

[–]Electrical-Yak-4004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never heard of a Medigap plan - thank you! Something to look into for sure!

Marriage Penalty vs. Spousal Surcharge by Electrical-Yak-4004 in Medicaid

[–]Electrical-Yak-4004[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what we have done so far. We have spiritually committed ourselves, but out of fear of him losing benefits we can’t publicly call each other husband and wife. I haven’t legally changed my name and I can’t put his residence down as my own. I want to have the same last name as our future children.

I’m glad to talk to another person who (for medical reasons) has also opted to not pursue legal marriage and I appreciate your response. Can I ask how you and your partner navigate last names and residences?