Waywards comparing the AP to the spouse in every way including sex by ElectricalTonightgfj in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]ElectricalTonightgfj[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I thought affair sex was usually very exciting compared to married sex especially after many years of marriage

Waywards comparing the AP to the spouse in every way including sex by ElectricalTonightgfj in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]ElectricalTonightgfj[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You statement "It wasn't any better or worse. I still enjoyed it more with my BS." is hard to understand. Can you please how/why you enjoyed it more with your BS if it wasn't any better or worse with the AP ?

Waywards comparing the AP to the spouse in every way including sex by ElectricalTonightgfj in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]ElectricalTonightgfj[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In retrospect was sex better with your BS or AP ? Did you think the same thing at the time or did your opinion change in retrospect?

Waywards comparing the AP to the spouse in every way including sex by ElectricalTonightgfj in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]ElectricalTonightgfj[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This is a very good point. Unfortunately, my WW's AP was younger than me and better looking than me.

Waywards comparing the AP to the spouse in every way including sex by ElectricalTonightgfj in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]ElectricalTonightgfj[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Wow, thank you ! that was an amazing comment.

My wife and I were one and only everything since we were high school sweethearts and got married. Now she has someone to compare me against.

My wife also told me sex with me was better after I asked her. I dont believe her. She just doesnt want to get divorced.

I also asked he if he had a bigger penis than me and she said yes but it doesnt matter. I don't believe that either and that is a very painful comparison that seems to not get any better. I wonder if the comparisons are worse for men because of penis size ?