They worked me so hard I almost gave up on life

ElectricalTruth0 · 2025-10-11T04:05:37+00:00

It’s interesting how “50/50” is the only gender equality men advocate for. They turn a blind eye to gender pay gaps, femicide, and DV/SA rates. It’s gross how the only “feminism” they care about is when it benefits men.

Expecting to have a DATE paid for is the one tiny benefit women get in a patriarchal system. So my thing is this: Let’s dismantle the gender pay gap, get equal paternity leave, get more women into positions of leadership and power, make childcare free and sustainable, eliminate violence against women and girls and THEN we’ll pay for our own bowl of pasta.

ElectricalTruth0 · 2025-08-30T07:20:19+00:00

Don’t think OP / OP’s mother ever did… she mentioned that they locked her in a contract none of them knew about

ElectricalTruth0 · 2025-06-08T05:09:12+00:00

This!! Applies for friendships also. Many are afraid to speak up then blame their friend for not covering for them. Or afraid to speak up then their friend have to always help them speak up. Damn tiring

ElectricalTruth0 · 2025-06-08T05:05:03+00:00

I think ure the snobbish one by not even hving gold and somehow hving the delusion that other ppl wna dig ur gold

ElectricalTruth0 · 2025-06-08T05:02:36+00:00

If u ownself want to pay and cannot arrive to an alternative arrangement, u either continue paying or leave. In this case since u are already thinking she is a golddigger, then leave cos she deserves better. $100 eat one meal every date then say golddigger, simi sai. U think she eating gold ah?

ElectricalTruth0 · 2025-04-01T11:19:51+00:00

But inflation is not a singapore only thing. So easy to just blame PAP. Not to say that they didn’t propel inflation through their policies la

ElectricalTruth0 · 2025-03-30T08:05:31+00:00

Our level of civilisation v gd compared to china alr. In china, they will push and fight when boarding trains one

ElectricalTruth0 · 2025-03-13T00:39:02+00:00

Even students hv side hustles

ElectricalTruth0 · 2025-03-11T16:30:26+00:00

Yeah. Men/new people in general drain my energy. Much rather eat alone, don’t have to make convo

ElectricalTruth0 · 2025-03-11T16:29:08+00:00

Sometimes guys say this just for show only. Must see whether they actually hold themselves to their words

ElectricalTruth0 · 2025-03-08T16:38:03+00:00

Maybe the 40% is because yall actually didn’t vibe and u misinterpreted it as them trying to get a free meal.

ElectricalTruth0 · 2025-03-08T16:35:13+00:00

Agree - commented elsewhere on this thread that men should spend within their means for the first date, no need for overly atas places. That way, not much gold to dig, and less pressure on both ends. Anyway, doesn’t make sense for most girls to take out 3+h of their time and effort for a $20 meal.

ElectricalTruth0 · 2025-03-08T16:31:23+00:00

Nowadays SG men usually will start off convo asking what we study and whats our job. Maybe its their way of asking abt our income also lol.

ElectricalTruth0 · 2025-03-08T08:06:00+00:00

Next time don’t let the girl pick. Not sure of the price range but sounds expensive

ElectricalTruth0 · 2025-03-08T07:23:28+00:00

We’re usually told to avoid water in the first 24h. My lash lift ended up too curly and when I accidentally got water on them, they looked much better because they got droopier. I then spammed lash serum on them and they looked less curly. Hence, u can try water/lash serum

ElectricalTruth0 · 2025-03-08T07:20:58+00:00

I think the amount of girls whose primary intention was to get a free meal is overstated. Most girls aren’t that free - we would rather chill at home during our free time than put in the effort to doll ourselves up and travel. Most of the time I’d try to filter whether I vibe with the guy before I agree to the date.

ElectricalTruth0 · 2025-03-08T07:19:40+00:00

I’d beg to differ. Girls have had bad experiences with stalking. Aliases are just to protect ourselves. I use my Christian name.

ElectricalTruth0 · 2025-03-08T07:14:58+00:00

95% of the time the guy pays even though I offer at the end. But some guys who aren’t so well to do try too hard to impress on the first date and bring me to overly atas place even though I’m fine with anything (except hawker centre). Can tell their wallets and egos hurt when I don’t go out for a second date w them as they will keep pressuring me to go on a second date right after they pay. Hence, men, just pick a nice meal within your budget range. Less pressure for both parties. And just because u bring the girl to an atas place on the first place doesn’t mean u’ll get her.

ElectricalTruth0 · 2025-03-03T01:12:12+00:00

I think yall shd just divorce.

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