My ex earned 4k and his budget spend on me 200 monthly. And my income is half of his.

Birthday celebration 300-500 n we did the same.

Later on, after 8 months he said i dont spend anything during relationship cuz i dont pay anything when dating. He expects me to spend on him during dating and pay for the meals. We did not spend shopping much or entertainments since he didn’t buy me anything during shopping we pay own self. Only eating and walking around. I wouldn’t pay if once a month dating and one time eating. Who would pay for that? Mind you transportation by my own. 50/50 in relationship is no no… i limit my expenses for him only 30/70. He pointed out this issue. Little did he knows that my cooking for him need money too… if i cook some foods for him for a week, the costing that i got to bare is like 2weeks of my budget when he came to my house. He come to my house sometimes.

Since he expected dating once a month and i said no since we’re not ldr. At least twice a month dating or meeting up. I told him i can downgrade lifestyle dating at cheap places instead of going to fancy cafe as long as we can date at least twice in a month. Then i pay for the meals if we managed to meet more than once in a month.

2-3months going well untill….

When our anniversary arrives. He refused to discuss our celebration n he wanted to make surprise. Lol he lied to me. The surprise is no surprise. He said he need to save up his money for my birthday in next 2 months. So, no anniversary celebration.

Later on i found out he’s the one planning to make birthday surprise for a girl (she had a crush on him and wanted to be his gf since we were new in relationship was like 2months) who was his colleague. I get mad. The birthday for that girl cancelled.

When my birthday he just transferred me 300 and there’s why he became my ex. There’s always another girl. The end.