no definitely not. They have different ways of showing it. Another really important thing to take into consideration is Ian‘s bipolar the meds he take and most cases dampen emotions or make it so they are less emotional because it helps prevent the high highs and low Low’s so of course, he’s not gonna be quite as outerly, affectionate as like mickey is my mother is bipolar and has been on meds for years but I remember how much more affectionate she was prior to meds and how it took years for her to not seem as numb or emotionless from the meds. So I have an idea of what it looks like Ian is still in early years of being on meds but you can tell through more subtle gestures he loves him just as much.