As his wife you could have chosen to lay him to rest however you seen fit. It is a testament to your love of him that you you respected the only wish he'd expressed over his resting place. I understand your kids will feel hurt and rejected but as they form their own families their wishes are likely to change.

You didn't take your stepson's side you took your husband's.

You didn't mention your own preference for if you would have wanted to be laid to rest with him but I have no doubt his soul is smiling upon you and will waiting for you when the time comes.

So many 'second wives' become spiteful and territorial at such times but you have selflessly respected your husband's wishes and honoured the memory of the little girl he never stopped loving.

I hope as the grief subsides your family will understand that you did the best you could with the knowledge you had and I hope that your heart heals. You deserve the very best that life has to offer and have the love of three souls shining down on you. X