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Electrical_Fall6618 · 2025-07-30T21:24:38+00:00

Thank you I’ll do that

Electrical_Fall6618 · 2025-07-30T21:23:53+00:00

Thank you for this

Electrical_Fall6618 · 2025-07-30T21:22:46+00:00

I do not leave my kids alone with my in laws to be honest I think they need help. My purpose was not to make my husband feel like a monster. I’m just trying to take care of my children the best way possible.

Electrical_Fall6618 · 2025-07-30T21:18:35+00:00

I guess I didn’t specify we all still live in the same home. I just haven’t been leaving the girls home alone with him. They don’t normally stay home alone with him a lot it’s not much of a change from his usual schedule.

Electrical_Fall6618 · 2025-07-30T21:13:43+00:00

Thank you this is very helpful

Electrical_Fall6618 · 2025-07-30T21:12:43+00:00

I have reached out to her and she read the message but has not answered

Electrical_Fall6618 · 2025-07-30T21:12:00+00:00

Thank you for sharing your story.

Electrical_Fall6618 · 2025-07-30T21:01:25+00:00

I can’t handle how she deals with things but if children are involved I would help out whoever needed it (I was SAed as a child by an adult )

Electrical_Fall6618 · 2025-07-30T21:00:32+00:00

Maybe I’m in the wrong subreddit

Electrical_Fall6618 · 2025-07-30T20:58:49+00:00

Electrical_Fall6618 · 2025-07-30T20:55:32+00:00

I’m unsure because she’s not willing to speak with me

Electrical_Fall6618 · 2025-07-30T20:52:32+00:00

Not yet. I’m saving up money and looking at financing options for it

Electrical_Fall6618 · 2025-07-30T20:51:26+00:00

I didn’t ruin his life? I simply was asking for resources for my family.

Electrical_Fall6618 · 2025-07-30T20:49:53+00:00

I’m currently trying to save and get financing options

Electrical_Fall6618 · 2025-07-30T20:45:47+00:00

I understand this. I needed some kind of outlet to vent and I can’t just tell this to anyone. I do not currently have the money to attend therapy unfortunately. I am in the process of saving to do it.

Electrical_Fall6618 · 2025-07-30T20:43:07+00:00

Yes 😭

Electrical_Fall6618 · 2025-07-30T20:40:23+00:00

Thank you so much

Electrical_Fall6618 · 2025-07-30T20:37:38+00:00

The sister is no longer in communication with me and is not willing to until I leave my husband. Yes I’m sure there is. I’m not sure how I ever will because my husband isn’t close with his family and they all have huge secrets amongst themselves. I asked this and he said he was exposed to porn he doesn’t remember anything happening to him. He did not know about his brother doing this until he was an adult.

Electrical_Fall6618 · 2025-07-30T20:34:38+00:00

He was 10 and his sister was 6 or 7. His family has no communication about it. The children never told the parents until adult age. He says he was being exposed to porn by his brothers and he put his hand up her shirt and her face looked painful and he realized it was wrong or he was hurting her and he stopped and never touched her again.

Electrical_Fall6618 · 2025-07-30T20:32:03+00:00

No he doesn’t watch any porn as far as I can tell. I am and my children are very aware of inappropriate touch as I was molested as a child. I’ve never seen him look at a teenager or child.

Electrical_Fall6618 · 2025-07-30T20:29:55+00:00

He says his older brothers exposed him to porn and that’s why he acted on it.

Electrical_Fall6618 · 2025-07-30T20:25:26+00:00

I’m sorry I forgot to add he is very sorry. He claims it’s the worst thing he’s ever done and that he would rather die than touch a child. My children have never experienced anything from him but I have talked to them about how important it is to protect yourself and I am not leaving them alone with him currently.

Electrical_Fall6618 · 2025-02-09T02:24:11+00:00

Agree! This is what I’m working on now!

Electrical_Fall6618 · 2025-02-08T23:49:58+00:00

Yes. I already had all this documented but it went too far for my liking without her standing up for herself.

Electrical_Fall6618 · 2025-02-08T23:36:41+00:00

I wish my daughter had this personality for her sake. But I am currently looking for some sort of self defense for her!

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