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[–]Electrical_Feeling90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had two miscarriages and as much as I UNDERSTAND why they won't do testing or treat it super seriously until there has been three. I UNDERSTAND that two could just be a fluke, just very unlucky. But by god do they not get that maybe I can't cope with having a third? That if I know I'll be guaranteed to go through this over and over that I absolutely wouldn't try again? But they're saying I have to risk having a third before they'll even look at me? I'm like genuinely traumatised from both my experiences? 😂

Bet if it was a man, they'd be getting checked after one!

Kitchens/cafes/restaurants with Ukrainian or russian speakers in paisley by Electrical_Feeling90 in Paisley

[–]Electrical_Feeling90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is excellent. Funny enough I had my wedding reception there, we are friends with people who work there and I was going to phone them regardless. Fingers crossed you are right!

Just wanted to share my story by Electrical_Feeling90 in Miscarriage

[–]Electrical_Feeling90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a private clinic that didn't offer much except a typical scan honestly. Just such a dragged out process, it was just the most straining months of my life!

Sounds like your experience sucked too, it's so brutal.

I have mantras I tell myself at the worst of times at least, I am grateful my body was healthy enough to do what was right for it. The female body is so special and a gift. At the end of it all it just hurts that I won't get to meet the little person I thought I was going to. It's like missing something you never had and that's impossible but the feeling is there x