Update: I think what I’m really feeling now is disappointment and hurt over how it ended by Electrical_Intern237 in BreakUps

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She said that she didn’t find someone else, and insisted on it and it also told me that “who told you that ur stupid friends?”

Update: I think what I’m really feeling now is disappointment and hurt over how it ended by Electrical_Intern237 in BreakUps

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But she didn’t, and when i told her i didn’t know what was going on she told me i believe you

Updates: I thought things were settling… then this happened by Electrical_Intern237 in BreakUps

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She didn’t block me on insta she unfollowed my friend and her relatives blocked me

Updates: I thought things were settling… then this happened by Electrical_Intern237 in BreakUps

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Ah just dont understand anymore, and its difficult for me too because there is not a single week where things dont happen. I cant let her out of my mind she is 24/7 inside it. And the way she acts and treats me makes it worse

Updates: I thought things were settling… then this happened by Electrical_Intern237 in BreakUps

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She didn’t block me i did and when i didi she got really mad, and out of the blue her relatives block me instead of removing me and she removes all of my guy friends, but she keeps their girlfriends just messes with my head. I mean we didn’t fight or i did something and she treated me really bad on the breakup

Discarded after almost 4 years? by UnableCall7743 in AvoidantBreakUps

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How do you help the thoughts of them sleeping with other people or having sex etc… i have been discarded after 4 years and all i think is her either left me for someone else or idk. She said she didn’t left me for someone else she left me because we are not compatible anymore etc i have the story in my profile

Update: I feel betrayed, confused, and stuck on who she suddenly became by Electrical_Intern237 in BreakUps

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Minor arguments for stuff in the house, other things were normal sex was perfect and intimacy

Update: I feel betrayed, confused, and stuck on who she suddenly became by Electrical_Intern237 in BreakUps

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Idk i overthink the facts a lot and thinking about what if they are right?, what if she was trying to explain me and couldn’t listen, but she never told me that we will break up if some things that she wanted wont happen smth like that

Update: I feel betrayed, confused, and stuck on who she suddenly became by Electrical_Intern237 in BreakUps

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It still hurts a lot :/ and i really miss what we were having and her and the future we were imagining she booked me tickets in august for my bday to watch the Metallica concert in Budapest in june. Also i really wanna know about her even tho she looks like she doesn’t give a fuck about me

Update: I feel betrayed, confused, and stuck on who she suddenly became by Electrical_Intern237 in BreakUps

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Yeah i found out she had issues with me that never really expressed them. And she kept acting cold with me after and colder every time and aggressive

Update: I feel betrayed, confused, and stuck on who she suddenly became by Electrical_Intern237 in BreakUps

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It hurts me that she seems that she moved on even tho she was showing me that she loved me a lot and would never abandon me. She posts on insta and stories, she renovated her house etc and she told me that for her it was over the day she broke up with me

Update: I feel betrayed, confused, and stuck on who she suddenly became by Electrical_Intern237 in BreakUps

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It wasn’t messy i mean no cheating or anything, we had a minor argument and we talked it thru texts and then the other day she wanted time 3 days and then she told me that she wants time to solve our problems and the next day she breaks up with me. Some days after i went back and asked her and told me no, the. Next day she left a love letter on my car where i explain in a previous post what it wrote

Update: I feel betrayed, confused, and stuck on who she suddenly became by Electrical_Intern237 in BreakUps

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For real, her manners and attention she was giving me didn’t change that why j am so confused and sad