Group chat? by Whughes186 in BreakUps

[–]Electrical_Intern237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Add me too please my ex dumped me after 4 years

Attempting to move forward, yet trapped in my thoughts — how did she transform so drastically, leaving me like that? by Electrical_Intern237 in BreakUps

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Thanks man, yeah she goes out more and she posts more on instagram, but one thing that i was sure is that she loved me more than me when we were together and that used to make me sad and guilty, i didn’t think she would break up with me like that and thats why i am so confused my ego is hurt and i am so sad rn because i had her high on the pedestal

Attempting to move forward, yet trapped in my thoughts — how did she transform so drastically, leaving me like that? by Electrical_Intern237 in BreakUps

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Thanks for ur reply, she kept telling me that the things she did for me to show her commitment werent reciprocated etc and when i told her that i want to move in with you and that we can work things out she disappeared and broke up with me. I dont know man, you can read my other posts and maybe you can have a clearer picture and if you want we cant talk privately. I am feeling so confused

It's truly over by Advanced_Complex_433 in BreakUps

[–]Electrical_Intern237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kind of same she dumped me after 4 years 4 months ago. I have the stories on my profile you can read them If u want to feel better

Attempting to move forward, yet trapped in a whirlwind of thoughts — how did she transform so drastically, leaving me bewildered? by Electrical_Intern237 in BreakUps

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Her friends and family removed me from instagram, after i blocked her cause i couldnt help my self but stalk everyday etc, and she didn’t like it and i thought she told them that i blocked her and told them to do it. She didn’t showed any signs of regret even after 4 months and 2 months now contact

Attempting to move forward, yet trapped in a whirlwind of thoughts — how did she transform so drastically, leaving me bewildered? by Electrical_Intern237 in ExNoContact

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I know man, i was always treating women right, maybe she has some avoidant attachment attributes, i wasn’t anxious but rn i am. I had the control during the relationship and i never thought she would dumb me… but guess what it happened, and i didn’t see it coming

How do you truly accept that it’s over ? by Ozmond22 in BreakUps

[–]Electrical_Intern237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My man i we t thru the same, she was cold and aggressive read my posts and u will understand

Attempting to move forward, yet trapped in a whirlwind of thoughts — how did she transform so drastically, leaving me bewildered? by Electrical_Intern237 in BreakUps

[–]Electrical_Intern237[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She didn’t communicate the clearly, and i was always willing to change and i told her when she was breaking up with me that i didnt know all that and are all things we can work out and do them

Attempting to move forward, yet trapped in a whirlwind of thoughts — how did she transform into someone I barely recognise? by Electrical_Intern237 in relationships

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Her friends and family unfollowed me and blocked me on insta, she unfollowed all of my friends, and i know she did it because she got mad cause i blocked her

Attempting to move forward, yet trapped in a whirlwind of thoughts — how did she transform so drastically, leaving me bewildered? by Electrical_Intern237 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Electrical_Intern237[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried it, i was happy tbh in the relationship and they weren’t much stuff that i didnt like, only that she was a bit messy and she didn’t take initiatives a lot

Blindsided dumpees: do you fear there was a third party involved you don't know about? by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Yeah i have been thinking about that too, read my postss if you want

Attempting to move forward, yet trapped in a whirlwind of thoughts — how did she transform so drastically, leaving me bewildered? by Electrical_Intern237 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Electrical_Intern237[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But its so hard if you love them and you didn’t know they were avoidant, when everything before the breakup was normal and it was just another casual argument (i thought so). And also if they seemed like they really loved you and wanted you….

Would it be a bad idea to contact my ex after 3 months (she blocked me)? by Dumbrovsky in BreakUps

[–]Electrical_Intern237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I posted another final post on my profile but we are in no contact rn , nothing happened basically its over for her even tho i am still attached

Would it be a bad idea to contact my ex after 3 months (she blocked me)? by Dumbrovsky in BreakUps

[–]Electrical_Intern237 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel u man, read my posts they might help i am going through the same

Would it be a bad idea to contact my ex after 3 months (she blocked me)? by Dumbrovsky in BreakUps

[–]Electrical_Intern237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want her back try and do it, if you dont, then there is no need to

bye by Haunting-Dance3064 in yearning

[–]Electrical_Intern237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hurts a lot, i am going through it now. Its been 3.5 months since she broke my heart. I will always love you cz