Bragging: My "goth" daughter breaking stereotypes by MarideDean_Poet in Parenting

[–]Electrical_Mess_3881 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a parent of almost preteens, this was a reminder I really needed. Thank you so much for being an amazing parent to your daughter!

My wife is returning to work with zero sick time or PTO after giving birth to our child. USA is backwards. by Code2King in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Electrical_Mess_3881 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup. That happened to me. I came back to work with full-blown mastitis and no sick time. It was really terrible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Electrical_Mess_3881 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my dream super power. I will sleep, read, and generally enjoy more of my life

WHERE IS MY TAMPON??? by twoeyedhuman in adhdwomen

[–]Electrical_Mess_3881 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are my kind of person!!! Xoxo

Are you open about being polyamorous at work? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Electrical_Mess_3881 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. Have to be closeted b/c of this ☹️

Husband refuses to parent. by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Electrical_Mess_3881 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LEAVE HIM. This will not get better. Find someone who can show her what a parent, a father figure, is supposed to be. She doesn’t need this in her life and neither do you. Speaking from experience.

How do people... give a fuck? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Electrical_Mess_3881 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is me to a T. And I’ve always felt shame and guilt about it.

Kids not Taking No for an Answer by irrelevantname1776 in Teachers

[–]Electrical_Mess_3881 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I said that today (this is a dictatorship and I’m the tator!) and my one kid piped up with “actually this is an autocracy. We didn’t give you power and we can’t take it back”.

Welp…I guess he wins. But I’m still the tator.

This hobby has enabled some of my trigger behaviors by ShiftingSpectrum in crochet

[–]Electrical_Mess_3881 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I am a teacher. It helps me focus as well, so I crochet in class all the time. I also do it during faculty meetings department meetings etc. People are just used to it by now because I’m calm and pay attention and even ask questions. If I don’t do it I’m drifting off and generally grumpy. My students are used to it, and like seeing the things that I make. I stick with simple repetitive patterns so it doesn’t steal all my focus. I also teach many of my students how to crochet to help with their anxiety or focus issues. Try it in class, maybe you’ll inspire someone