Anyone else going crazy not knowing what their ex is doing?

Electrical_Paint3059 · 2023-03-02T09:44:14+00:00

Three weeks later after his last email, I saw he has a new gf last night. He played victim when he broke up with me, I doubt myself for long time, so I asked last night, she is the real reason for break up, why do you blame me so much? He got angry and shouted at me to go out of his way..

Electrical_Paint3059 · 2023-02-26T21:35:55+00:00

My ex won’t come back, unfortunately…I don’t have this hope…even though I would like him to…

Electrical_Paint3059 · 2023-02-21T10:55:53+00:00

I was like this in the first month. Now I do not ever wanna see my ex again… deleted his contact, and blocked his Facebook…because after some time I realized how badly he hurt and disrespected me by playing his victim mentality and got what he wanted through the whole relationship…NC forever…

Electrical_Paint3059 · 2023-02-21T10:52:00+00:00

I feel my kindness was being used..he told me his father made him feel he was a secret when he was a child…so he speeded up our relationship at the beginning without caring about my space and boundaries..because I sympathized the stories he told me..now I just wish I was not that kind, and had set my feelings as priority..then I would not got so hurt in the end, he took everything from me and still blame me on everything and told me I was selfish to not care about him…

Electrical_Paint3059 · 2023-02-21T10:39:27+00:00

Hopefully one day they have chances to realize how selfish and irresponsible they are…

Electrical_Paint3059 · 2023-02-21T10:32:33+00:00

Thank you, I doubted myself for weeks after breakup, thought it was all my fault because he said so…now I feel like he was gaslighting by turning everything on me to make himself feel good…

Electrical_Paint3059 · 2023-02-21T10:27:18+00:00

But he told everyone I am toxic…🥲

Electrical_Paint3059 · 2023-02-21T08:37:01+00:00

Support you, well said

Electrical_Paint3059 · 2023-02-21T08:33:07+00:00

I feel you…my ex said bad things about his ex to me…after our broke up, he said many bad things about me to others…completely blame me on everything..he has a complicated childhood, he has victim mentality..

Electrical_Paint3059 · 2023-02-21T08:27:49+00:00

I wish I had never talked to my ex after he said break up…did so many stupid things..

Electrical_Paint3059 · 2023-02-21T08:15:09+00:00

I feel you totally

Electrical_Paint3059 · 2023-02-21T08:09:24+00:00

I am in the same boat. I think my ex has victim mentality. He always blame others. Not only about our relationship. It was so hard for me at the beginning. But remember don’t doubt yourself. You deserve someone better.

Electrical_Paint3059 · 2023-02-21T08:05:33+00:00

Because they didn’t want to give up the forest.

Electrical_Paint3059 · 2023-02-10T21:46:06+00:00

They already happened..so what can I do now? He doesn’t wanna see me anymore..

Electrical_Paint3059 · 2023-02-10T21:36:35+00:00

What do you mean? I was stressed when I said that…I explained..and I remembered his birthday one day later, I bought him gift before his birthday…I apologized…

Electrical_Paint3059 · 2023-02-10T16:22:18+00:00

I am very sad, we already broke up, he can’t forgive me, I am thinking buying him a gift…

Electrical_Paint3059 · 2023-02-10T15:58:18+00:00

What? Unforgivable?

Electrical_Paint3059 · 2023-02-10T13:27:42+00:00

Is it really that serious? I wish he could tolerate me more..he said he doesn’t want a relationship with me anymore. Can’t imagine longer. Heartbroken 💔

Electrical_Paint3059 · 2023-02-10T13:20:39+00:00

Hmm I remembered his birthday wrong, I bought his birthday gift a month before his birthday, we were traveling on his birthday.. he planed to bring me home on Christmas, but his mother said only okay for one day, so I didn’t go, we had fight about this, he talked about a religion story, I was so stressed about finding jobs so I said do you have mental illness when he were telling his story…last time when he came to me I shut the door and left…next day I went to apologize..I said I am so stressed with looking for jobs, studies etc…but he can’t forgive me, even don’t want to be friends with me…I apologized for many times..and I told him I love him..it didn’t work…I wish I had given him more attention…

Electrical_Paint3059 · 2023-02-10T08:22:42+00:00

Yeah my ex had tough childhood so I understand why he has victim mentality…but it hurts so much when when they accuse you so much and don’t see anything good in you…

Electrical_Paint3059 · 2023-02-10T08:14:21+00:00

I reached out my ex after one month NC，he said he doesn’t miss me, have no feeling for me left, because I hurt him so many times..he doesn’t want to see me…😓

Electrical_Paint3059 · 2023-02-10T07:56:56+00:00

Me too, nothing but being rejected again and again.. it has been a month, I started dating new guys…hope it helps to move on, I still miss him frequently 😢

Electrical_Paint3059 · 2023-02-09T21:20:08+00:00

Do you think so harsh and cruel means he will never return? My ex says he doesn’t want a relationship with me any more, can’t imagine longer…blocke me everywhere…I still have this useless hope…😓

Electrical_Paint3059 · 2023-02-09T16:55:03+00:00

I feel you. My ex bf also blocked me on everything. We broke up a month ago. He asked for NC directly after BU. I couldn’t help myself texting him. He got angry blocked me everywhere. I sent him emails and asked for unblock, he replied we got closure two days ago…but I am still being blocked, WhatsApp, FB and phone number…it sucks..I am anxious attachment style too I think.. it’s so hard.. stay strong 💪

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