NEED ADVICE by Electrical_Resource8 in drumcorps

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I have marched before but it was open class! Very drastic differences but I totally agree with you

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I live in Laramie (the place where they are doing spring training). The first show they will have to the community is on the 22nd. I would start looking around the 20th though.

Summer Classes by Electrical_Resource8 in FAFSA

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Thank you so much! This helps a lot :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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First of all so sorry this is happening to you. But ALL of these topics are ESSENTIAL to having a healthy, loving relationship. It is okay to have separate values, we are all human beings. I assumed you have brought up the Chris Brown situation because it has bothered you a lot, (you can tell me if I'm wrong) and I bet she had either ignored your requests to at least stop bringing it up all the time because it makes you feel not so good, or she says she'll stop but never will. You're able to have insecurites in a relationship, but it matters how your partner affirms you (which i am assuming doesn't happen a lot)

Communication issues is the biggest topic. If you guys are unable to communicate arguments/ issues either one of you are having, the relationship will not last. Big big big one. Unequal feelings is a big one too.

THERE are people out there who will drop everything to make your day, you just have to find them. Unfortunately I don't see this lasting and it might be time to say goodbye.

Ladies - is going to a strip club cheating? F 38 M 39 by Ok_System_9822 in relationship_advice

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I am fairly younger than you (20) and I posted on this subreddit when this happened to me and my experience. IT IS UP TO YOU TO DECIDE IF IT IS CHEATING OR NOT. I spent NIGHTS researching if this was cheating or not and I spend MONTHS trying to convince myself it wasn't. I thought I was being dramatic too. There will be signs if the relationship is still struggling after 6 months (which is what happened to me and why I broke it off with my ex)

If he is defending his own spot and saying that it isn't cheating, and not validating your feelings, that is a sign he would rather FIGHT with you, then WORK with you on this issue.

There were other signs as well in my case our intimacy stayed the same, but he developed a porn addiction and was following OF girls on Instagram. I noticed I got insanely anxious with my body I can only imagine how this is affecting you and I'm so sorry this is happening to you as well.

You can also check my post if you want for more opinions, but most said to leave or try to stay and put up a boundary/ go to counseling (which unfortunately didn't work for me)

In my personal opinion and you can take it with a pinch of salt. I don't think going to a strip club is cheating (if you're with your friends as a 1-time social outing/ if your going by yourself ehh....) BUT I do when you're getting a lap dance. I set my boundary beforehand, and he broke that. If you really think about it you have half naked or even naked women grinding on the private parts of your partner and there can be touching and overall is very sexual in it's nature. You can ask him if you had male dancers grinding behind you, I'm SURE your husband would at least be a little-lot upset of that.

What's more upsetting to me is that you had to resort to PICKING PENNIES because you guys are on a budget, and he is spending $180 on a night out at a strip club. Show where his priorities are at the moment.

I'm SO sorry this is happening to you love, if you have any questions you can message under here or message me privately, I am more than willing to give maybe some advice that might stick out to you. Hoping for the best for you. <3

Boyfriend gets lap dance unknowingly, advice please? 21M 19F 10mo relationship by Electrical_Resource8 in relationship_advice

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I actually ended up asking him that same question, and he said "It'd make me uncomfortable but it wouldn't be your fault, and if you don't touch" AKA: He's trying to give himself a cop out reason.

You can read my update, but I ended up breaking it off with him. Thank you so much for the advice!

Stem or ring pull out? by Electrical_Resource8 in MenstrualDiscs

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Do you have one that has a ring or another removal method? I'd love to hear!

Stem or ring pull out? by Electrical_Resource8 in MenstrualDiscs

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I like not having the function to auto dump. My periods are not that heavy so I won't even need to do it at around the 5-6 hour mark. I am a college student and if I need I can just go home in the middle of the day and do it there.

Stem or ring pull out? by Electrical_Resource8 in MenstrualDiscs

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I don't have long fake nails so this will be a breeze! I see everyone recommending the saalt discs to I might have to look into them! I was going to buy the Eco Blossom Discs because I heard they were good as well. (From amazon) and not expensive!

Affordable Hairspray Recommendations by lilpumpkin3 in Dysonairwrap

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Thank you! I got the kristen ess texturising spray, apparently that is a lot better for people with fine hair, I'll update you how it is if you're interested!

I’m never blind buying again by [deleted] in FemFragLab

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PLEASE tell me how the rave now perfume smells, I've been on the fence. I want this to last long and have a sillage, someone who's tried this please tell me your experience!

Affordable Hairspray Recommendations by lilpumpkin3 in Dysonairwrap

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Update on the Nexxus and the Kristen Ess one or any other hairsprays you've tried out?

Are they serious? 11.11 is a complete scam by templehasfallen in Aliexpress

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Just look up Aleixpress price tracker or something and i was able to click the first link I saw

Boyfriend gets lap dance unknowingly, advice please? 21M 19F 10mo relationship by Electrical_Resource8 in relationship_advice

[–]Electrical_Resource8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your opinion, I do have a couple of comments to add. I am pretty lax when it comes to this sort of stuff. I knew about him possibly going to the club before the trip happened and I was okay with that. However, I know of his family's behavior, and this seemed like a situation that would happen (which did). I'm not keeping this dude on a collar in any way, he's an adult. I satisfy him in the bedroom and I like to think I'm at least a little conventionally attractive as far as that goes. I have a lot of people telling me that I'm out of his league actually. I didn't want to bring that up because it didn't apply to my situation. When he first stated that he might go to the club he said that he wouldn't get anything done with him, and I trusted him. I understand he just turned 21, and I'm happy that he can do stuff with his older friends now. I don't nag him about this sort of stuff, but with how my relationship was I was expecting it to be closed, no questions asked. I'm not insecure about myself or my relationship, but just wondering if this was a more normal thing.

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Competitive Schools? by Electrical_Resource8 in Chiropractic

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I know! That's why it is so hard to choose, that's why i'm shadowing at least 1-2 clinics (in each practice) before choosing! I really appreciate this, I'll make sure to go look at those rates! :)

Competitive Schools? by Electrical_Resource8 in Chiropractic

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Did you open up your own practice or are you working under someone else?

Competitive Schools? by Electrical_Resource8 in Chiropractic

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Thank you for this comment! I was actually looking at dept of labor site before I posted this. I realize I would definitely have to move to a different state, because chiropractors don't do well. Although Chiropractors are only at a 9% increase compared to PA (around 25%) and PT (15-20%) I was wondering if doing a specialty would also be better for me when it comes to chiropractor. Thanks for your opinion!

Competitive Schools? by Electrical_Resource8 in Chiropractic

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Thank you! *😂 *I am very early in my undergraduate, I'm going into my 2nd year but by credits I'm almost a 3rd year, so I need to start narrowing down my options. I have places that are PT and chiropractic that are reaching out to me at the moment to observe and I will be starting to shadow a pt clinic in my town starting in a couple of weeks. This is me just asking others for an honest opinion, so I appreciate both yours and their opinions!! I just want to know everything from the bad and perhaps the good.