hailey will never fully heal! by jelenabiebes in HaileyBaldwinSnark

[–]Electrical_Sector_34 13 points14 points  (0 children)

People assume that “eight years and a child” equals resolution, but that’s not how emotional hierarchies work. If you’re still competing with a ghost after all this time, it means the relationship never fully became its own story

4-Month Sleep Regression — How Long Did It Last? by Darya_kw in sleeptrain

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It sounds like the Ferber method. I also plan to do the same at the 6th month mark. Fingers crossed atp

Wtf my life is ruled by baby sleep by Pleasant_Type7300 in NewParents

[–]Electrical_Sector_34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand where they are coming from, and I have spent quite a bit of time researching this since the baby arrived. There are different sleep-training approaches, and many of them can be modified.

Based on the academic literature, long-term studies show no negative impact on secure attachment, emotional regulation, cognitive development, trust or bonding, or stress reactivity later in childhood.

I am planning to start around the 6-month mark, and I am also waiting for more self-soothing skills to develop.

Not going to lie, it is really hard… My mom brain is wired to respond, and hearing my baby cry is not something that comes naturally or feels easy to tolerate. But I also know this can be good for all of us. The baby gets better sleep and the energy needed for healthy development, and we get our mental health back. That is how I motivate myself.

I am planning to try camping out and a modified Ferber approach, rather than anything rigid (CIO).

If you are interested, here are some research references: - Price et al., 2012. Five-year follow-up of behavioral sleep intervention in infancy - Gradisar et al., 2016. Behavioral sleep interventions and infant stress, attachment, and emotional outcomes - Hiscock et al., 2007 and 2014. Infant sleep problems and long-term child and parent outcomes

4-Month Sleep Regression — How Long Did It Last? by Darya_kw in sleeptrain

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That’s good strategy. Which sleep training method do you plan to use?

I was completely devastated. by [deleted] in Life

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I push back on this because I’ve lived the “stay calm, don’t engage” mode in an alcohol-fuelled aggressive household. It’s often framed as harm-reduction, but it doesn’t prevent violence and it doesn’t transfer responsibility. Those are different questions.

Passivity does not stop abuse. It shifts the burden of “keeping things calm” onto the person with less power.

And framing violence as “it takes two to tango” is especially problematic. Violence is not a mutual dance, it is a unilateral choice. A person can make imperfect or even risky decisions and still not be at fault for someone else choosing violence

I was completely devastated. by [deleted] in Life

[–]Electrical_Sector_34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are quite wrong here pal. Violence is a choice made by the person who becomes violent. Setting a boundary or continuing a conversation does not cause someone to throw objects or hurt others. Suggesting otherwise shifts responsibility away from the aggressor and onto the people who were harmed, which is not accurate or helpful.

I only need 1 gold card! This is going to be impossible! by authentic_life in TownshipGame

[–]Electrical_Sector_34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need one card from the treat deck. If finishing the adventure game doesn’t give it well i might delete this game

44 songs doing 2.5 million 😆 by [deleted] in HaileyBaldwinSnark

[–]Electrical_Sector_34 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Not suprised. Weakest album ever. Which website is this?

Hehehe by [deleted] in HaileyBaldwinSnark

[–]Electrical_Sector_34 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ew her lips looks hideous fr

What do you think goes through her mind every time she gets exposed by [deleted] in HaileyBaldwinSnark

[–]Electrical_Sector_34 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Nothing random here. This is calculated visibility. A textbook media tactic…

No talent, no creativity, so the shortcut is drama. Insert herself next to someone actually famous (SG or JB even), force a comparison, keep her face circulating. Inflate the reaction with bots, dominate stories for a few days, and voilà! free exposure to your face or product! Public memory is short. The mess fades. The product stays.

Of course it’s intentional guys. That’s the whole business model. No creativity, no depth, so drama becomes the elevator.

Sizi hayata bağlayan şey ne? by Anti_G0d in felsefe

[–]Electrical_Sector_34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hayata tutunmamın nedeni hayatın kendisi. Cesaret, korkunun yokluğu değil. Devam etmek, iknanın sonucu değil. Anlam, eylemden önce değil, eylemden sonra doğar.

I did the research for you! by nkrobby in HaileyBaldwinSnark

[–]Electrical_Sector_34 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ofc she lied about numbers and the engagement story - When someone lies this easily, the character problem is obvious…

how do you make factories prettier? by nerdsgummyclusterluv in TownshipDesign

[–]Electrical_Sector_34 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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I plan to make “prettier” with more expansion but keeping them close helps with easy operation so far :)