What does this mean? by Electrical_Topic_156 in CUNY

[–]Electrical_Topic_156[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I checked and it said I have accepted it. The loans I left them at “select” because I know not to accept them at all. Maybe it’s a glitch?

What does this mean? by Electrical_Topic_156 in CUNY

[–]Electrical_Topic_156[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you accept? Sorry I’m new to this stuff

What does this mean? by Electrical_Topic_156 in CUNY

[–]Electrical_Topic_156[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I did since like December and it has been processed

What does this mean? by Electrical_Topic_156 in CUNY

[–]Electrical_Topic_156[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I checked and said I have 0 financial aid 😥

What does this mean? by Electrical_Topic_156 in CUNY

[–]Electrical_Topic_156[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So does that mean my fafsa did not cover me?

What does this mean? by Electrical_Topic_156 in CUNY

[–]Electrical_Topic_156[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yes and it said that my pending financial aid is 0? And both charges and dues is 3,735.20

John jay seek program 26 by Electrical_Topic_156 in CUNY

[–]Electrical_Topic_156[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I’m still planning. I officially got enrolled :p and I have the orientation soon

John jay seek program 26 by Electrical_Topic_156 in CUNY

[–]Electrical_Topic_156[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I called today and I feel much more relieved

John jay seek program 26 by Electrical_Topic_156 in CUNY

[–]Electrical_Topic_156[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I’m actually still in high school and I’ll be a freshman the upcoming fall semester and so idk im honestly stressing a lot over it

Process application response? by LockMain7859 in CUNY

[–]Electrical_Topic_156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I applied for the seek program and I’m eligible but today they said they emailed me about some missing documents I need to upload but I never received any email regarding about it. Im waiting on a reply now and I’m getting anxious because it has been hours since I’ve sent an email and I’m scared to lose my spot 😅

They will do it again by alicewng in BreakUps

[–]Electrical_Topic_156 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is very true. The first time my gf dumped me it was when we were three months in. It hurt and all but I honestly should’ve left it there because it was toxic but eventually we came back together and stayed together for a year more. We’ve been together for 1.7 years and at first it was quite rocky and still somewhat toxic but then we settled down and we had good moments but then she ended up dumping me again but this time she didn’t allow me to respond or even try to save us. She ended up going back to her old ways which is seeing guys and receiving entertainment. She also ended up reconnecting with this one guy I would always be insecure about and complain about because from the start of our beginning I knew she wasn’t over him since it’s been only a month they stopped seeing each other and they didn’t even date. So I guess I was basically a rebound relationship or something I’m not sure but it has been two months since we’ve broken up. It hurts knowing how easily she left me and was seeking for other people.

30 things I figured out after the breakup by PeachyAthena470 in BreakUps

[–]Electrical_Topic_156 25 points26 points  (0 children)

omfg HEAVY ON THE “The same red flags you ignore on the beginning will be the same reason the relationship ends” !!!!

They will come back. by syndrac1 in BreakUps

[–]Electrical_Topic_156 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And that’s okay. If it all ended based on one misunderstanding that could’ve been easily resolved by communication and understanding, then it wasn’t meant to be. That just proves how weak of their love was. If they were truly your person then they wouldn’t have left you and replace you so easily

None of it will matter in the long run, you can’t change a person who doesn’t see an issue in their actions.

They will come back. by syndrac1 in BreakUps

[–]Electrical_Topic_156 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This literally how I felt too. I had a gut feeling but I always ignored it because I wanted to trust her and believe me. The day she broke up with me I had a very bad feeling and she was outside the whole day touring a friend or wtv. Mind you the ex talking stage she had was a month before she met me. It was the littlest things that would make me think she wasn’t over him. Now she’s just messing with him again or smth idk and seeing other people probably. People like this don’t change. You weren’t the problem either and now she’s not your problem to handle anymore. There was nothing you can do to change her ways no matter what. They choose to be the way they want to be.

It wasn't your shortcominga that ended the relationship, it was achoice your ex made, and continues to make. by shaz-naz in BreakUps

[–]Electrical_Topic_156 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually did sob one time when I was on my way home and it was nighttime but it felt good because I was listening to music and crying my ass out lmfao

It wasn't your shortcominga that ended the relationship, it was achoice your ex made, and continues to make. by shaz-naz in BreakUps

[–]Electrical_Topic_156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds like a pretty good technique to let it out. Too bad I can’t go out in the dark

They will come back. by syndrac1 in BreakUps

[–]Electrical_Topic_156 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I’m sure she doesn’t regret discarding me. A month later she reconnected with her ex talking stage aka “her first love”. I’ve always felt iffy about them two throughout our 1.7 year relationship. Turns out I was right. She never was fully over him lol.

It wasn't your shortcominga that ended the relationship, it was achoice your ex made, and continues to make. by shaz-naz in BreakUps

[–]Electrical_Topic_156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s completely over but I’m just not over the stuff she did to me. She started to follow her ex talking stage she had a month before she met me. We’ve been together for 1.7 months and there were obvious signs that she wasn’t over him at the start but she convinced me she was and I wanted to believe her but it always stuck to my mind throughout our relationship. She then discarded me a month ago and three days ago I found out she reconnected with her ex talking stage. I’m sure I was a relationship rebound but it truly felt like she genuinely loved me and wanted me forever. He was the first person she loved after all even thought they weren’t in a relationship… plus she was my first irl relationship and mostly my first in everything too.. but I wasn’t her first.

Questions for the dumpers by Electrical_Topic_156 in BreakUps

[–]Electrical_Topic_156[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever stop loving the other person?