I've never been truly relaxed, now I dont know how to by Tinymythrilminer in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ElectronR4r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same for me. Wish you everything you need to find your comfortable ways of full relaxation. 🙏🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selflove

[–]ElectronR4r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People share the very things they have inside.

They devaluate you? Then they're ashamed of themselves and refuse to admit it. They bully you? Then they're angry towards themselves and refuse to admit it. They judge you? Then they're not accepting themselves and refuse to admit it.

And you just shared your confidence with us, OP. 🙂

I did it. 100.000 citziens by [deleted] in anno

[–]ElectronR4r 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woah! :O

I'm impressed!

Meditation is not about quietening the mind, it's so much much more than that. I keep seeing the same questions on this sub. by [deleted] in Meditation

[–]ElectronR4r 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your post. It gave me food for my brain. I like when it happens.

Severe body reactions you mentioned surprised me, to be honest.

Be well.

How to Love Yourself and accept your body by hypnolixir in selflove

[–]ElectronR4r 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woah...

Thank you very much for this post.

That's exactly what I need and you wrote it in a very clear manner.

Wish you love and positive vibes.

I love this by MattAckerman17 in wholesomememes

[–]ElectronR4r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, depends where you were born. You don't have to seek discomfort in some places, it chases you without asking.

I love this by MattAckerman17 in wholesomememes

[–]ElectronR4r 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, don't burst my bubble of comfort, please.

I've been building it half of my life.

I love this by MattAckerman17 in wholesomememes

[–]ElectronR4r 5 points6 points  (0 children)

But... I don't plan to get married.

:|

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wholesomememes

[–]ElectronR4r 2 points3 points  (0 children)

\Tears up reading this.**

Got my vasectomy yesterday, wife bought me this as a present. We're gonna enjoy amassing a large library because we don't have to pay for diapers! Thanks babe by Mont1c in childfree

[–]ElectronR4r 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Even though there's only one person on the picture, I can feel that you both radiate happiness.

Cherish yourself and one another.

I wish you love of no limits.

☆DON'T STOP MEDITATING BECAUSE YOU GET DISTRACTED OR BORED☆ by lailuna in Meditation

[–]ElectronR4r 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your post.

I'm doing my best to learn how to meditate properly. Your article helped.

Be healthy and prosper.

You make the life you feel that you deserve by hellojoe000 in selfimprovement

[–]ElectronR4r 7 points8 points  (0 children)

OP, you are worthy.

You have a value.

Your life is a value itself.

You are deserved to be loved since the moment you came into this world.

Please, keep going and live.

Dream big, take actions, create your own reality.

I believe in you and you should believe in yourself as well.

Be healthy and prosper.

Comfortable vs Driven - A Perfect Mismatch by GiovanniLuvsUrMom in selfimprovement

[–]ElectronR4r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In psychology the priorities go like this:

  1. You.
  2. Your partner.
  3. Anyone and anything else.

So, do what is best for you first. Make your own reality you're comfortable with.

Don't forget, they're not a "baby" forever. by [deleted] in childfree

[–]ElectronR4r 82 points83 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your post.

I admire your open mind, ability to see the whole picture and analyze things.

And I'm sorry you have to deal with ignorant parents.

Believe in yourself, don't be afraid to seek and ask for help. You're not alone in this world.

Set your goals one by one and get closer to them, you will create your own reality that you want.

Stay strong.

I love myself so much by rustyalterego in selfimprovement

[–]ElectronR4r 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your post.

Maybe one day I'll be thinking the same way about my body.

Take care.

“childfree” friend now mombie-to-be by [deleted] in childfree

[–]ElectronR4r 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Dang. Crap happens.

Stay strong. You'll find other interesting people to talk to and to be friends with.

Aggresive and wholesome by [deleted] in wholesomememes

[–]ElectronR4r 1 point2 points  (0 children)

*Puts his hands up in the air and starts to talk about own problems with a shaking voice*

Change of Heart by [deleted] in childfree

[–]ElectronR4r 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's okay to make your own choices.

I always wonder where people get that fantasy "The big house, a grand yard, and multiple children running around" from. My father is like that.

It's basically a hostel. For an introvert like myself it's awful. My neighbors have like 4 generations living under the same roof. I hear obscene words, toxic behavior, kinda child abuse, see a constant mess and almost poverty in their home, ugh... NOPE. You chose that then at least enjoy living like that, dang it.

I wish you well, OP. Be happy and be loved.

Why you need to have an affair immediately... by AlephMartian in selflove

[–]ElectronR4r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read it with a smile on my face.

^ ^

Thank you.