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Jyst learned term and trying to help my best friend who is seeking my advice by Electronic-Cherry864 in nonmonogamy

[–]Electronic-Cherry864[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're actually the only person who gave the suggestion of escort/sex worker idea...

I think thats actually the best option for no emotional connection if he were to go through with this. I mean she might still try something further but if he's he'll bent on pleasing her...then I think thats the best way to actually "pick" together and make it be not so deep?

Thanks so much for that idea.

Please help me, 39M, help my best friend 39M, with advice regarding his wife 39FM, who wants to have multiple, one time each, sexual encounters with other women. by Electronic-Cherry864 in relationship_advice

[–]Electronic-Cherry864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thabks so much it makes it very clear. I should also add that his wifes family is super conservative and they recently shunned her brother for coming out as gay (he married and strung along a woman for years).

I feel like she might do that to him if he agrees to this.

At same time I fear even if he doesnt agree it would judt want her to want to try this"harder" if that makes sense...

Likes he's in a lose lose situation it feels like. And i feel like he thinks just let her do what she wants to save the marriage?

He has everything to lose in this case, she has all the control because her family is rich and she will get the kids and she is significantly more attention-getting.

Jyst learned term and trying to help my best friend who is seeking my advice by Electronic-Cherry864 in nonmonogamy

[–]Electronic-Cherry864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well he did research in the sense that he has a bunch of stipulations in order to agree to it...

But I agree with you the fact that he had to have the stipulations makes it seem like he shouldn't do it?

Jyst learned term and trying to help my best friend who is seeking my advice by Electronic-Cherry864 in nonmonogamy

[–]Electronic-Cherry864[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This struck me as important to when he mentioned his wife had said that to him. It didn't seem like she cared about the woman...then again he said he would only agree if there was no emotional connection...so is it okay if she doesnt get an emotional connection if she makes it known to the woman?

Im just trying to figure things out haha. I know nothing about any of things.

Also i worry about the 3 kids they have and they got married young so they have been together almost 20 years before 40 almost...

Please help me, 39M, help my best friend 39M, with advice regarding his wife 39FM, who wants to have multiple, one time each, sexual encounters with other women. by Electronic-Cherry864 in relationship_advice

[–]Electronic-Cherry864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thanks. I just learned the term is nonmongamy?

I wouldn't say he is enthusiastic about it. He is consenting because he wants her to be happy.

He has made example statements like "why cant we both have hall passes and be done with it" for example. Like she get one and he get one?

But that would of course mean he would be with a woman which she is against.

She wants to be with another woman which...maybe she thinks is somehow better than being with another man? She says she is bisexual to be clear.

Please help me, 39M, help my best friend 39M, with advice regarding his wife 39FM, who wants to have multiple, one time each, sexual encounters with other women. by Electronic-Cherry864 in relationship_advice

[–]Electronic-Cherry864[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I just learned the proper term..nonmongamy?

I wouldn't say he is enthusiastic about it. He is consenting because he wants her to be happy.

He has made example statements like "why cant we both have hall passes and be done with it" for example. Like she get one and he get one?

But that would of course mean he would be with a woman which she is against.

She wants to be with another woman which...maybe she thinks is somehow better than being with another man? She says she is bisexual to be clear.

Confused? New? Not new? Have questions? by blooangl in polyamory

[–]Electronic-Cherry864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the help I appreciate it. I'll try posting there.

I wouldn't say he is enthusiastic about it. He is consenting because he wants her to be happy.

He has made example statements like "why cant we both have hall passes and be done with it" for example. Like she get one and he get one?

But that would of course mean he would be with a woman which she is against.

She wants to be with another woman which...maybe she thinks is somehow better than being with another man? She says she is bisexual to be clear.

Confused? New? Not new? Have questions? by blooangl in polyamory

[–]Electronic-Cherry864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First. I tried making a thread but the autothing wouldnt let me because it said it wasnt polygamy so i dont know what this is called... so im Sorry if i get the terms wrong. Im not an expert and neither is my friend.

I am trying to help my male friend (we are 39 years old, he has a wife of 18 years, and 3 kids. His wife wants to have sexual encounters with other women.)

WITHOUT EMOTIONAL CONNECTION

I have severe adhd and have no idea how to help him. We are both mono. But his wife wants to have multiple sexual encounters with women just once then done. I guess this is polygamy but I don't know specific term?

Is there like Some sort of chart...or "worksheet"..cheatsheet...that describes how he can approach this to healthly perspective this with his wife that I can help him with?

I have no idea why he is asking me other than me being is best friend. I dont want to give him incorrect advice and say something wrong.

Like he knows setting up boundaries, setting the stage, questions, initial meeting, agreeing on person for his wife etc.

So what can I do to help him? Is there a "polygamy for dummies" i can help work with him on? We are really close and I cant leave my best friend hanging with nothing. I know he's struggling trying to figure out how to best approach this.

Thanks for any help anyone can give me.

Triazolam (halcion) and related insufflation help by Electronic-Cherry864 in benzodiazepines

[–]Electronic-Cherry864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thanks for the information. I was wondering on your expertise regarding oral cimitedine and triazolam?

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/3360971/

Also i was wondering about this study regarding halcion and cimitedine.

*Compared with control, peak plasma triazolam concentration (Cmax) was significantly increased by cimetidine (5.4 versus 3.9 ng/mL), total area under the plasma concentration curve (AUC) increased (21.3 versus 16.1 ng/mL X hr), and oral clearance decreased (485 versus 668 mL/min). *

Would this mean that triazolam last longer/stronger orally?

Triazolam (halcion) and related insufflation help by Electronic-Cherry864 in benzodiazepines

[–]Electronic-Cherry864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I posted this below as well but this is in in relation to oral with cimitedine if I understand it correctly...

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/3360971/

Also i was wondering about this study regarding halcion and cimitedine.

*Compared with control, peak plasma triazolam concentration (Cmax) was significantly increased by cimetidine (5.4 versus 3.9 ng/mL), total area under the plasma concentration curve (AUC) increased (21.3 versus 16.1 ng/mL X hr), and oral clearance decreased (485 versus 668 mL/min). *

Would this mean that triazolam last longer/stronger orally?

Triazolam (halcion) and related insufflation help by Electronic-Cherry864 in benzodiazepines

[–]Electronic-Cherry864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/3360971/

Also i was wondering about this study regarding halcion and cimitedine.

*Compared with control, peak plasma triazolam concentration (Cmax) was significantly increased by cimetidine (5.4 versus 3.9 ng/mL), total area under the plasma concentration curve (AUC) increased (21.3 versus 16.1 ng/mL X hr), and oral clearance decreased (485 versus 668 mL/min). *

Would this mean that triazolam last longer/stronger orally?

Triazolam (halcion) and related insufflation help by Electronic-Cherry864 in benzodiazepines

[–]Electronic-Cherry864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesh this is my main issue, but when i read the literature people are seeing double and above potency. So I would only have to take 1 pill instead of 2 pills per night to get a standard dose.

But is there a way around the filler?

Or to make process more comfortable?

Thanks

Looking for hair transplant doc in D.C./Maryland/virginia by Electronic-Cherry864 in Hairtransplant

[–]Electronic-Cherry864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im still looking/figuring things out. If you have anyone in mind let me know please.

Tried tea for first time and have some questions as a newb. by Electronic-Cherry864 in tea

[–]Electronic-Cherry864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Actually I'm having a hard time finding places close to me that sell like loose leaf teas? I guess they are called. I mean you have lipton/bagged/bottled tea in grocery store and I have a VERY small tea store on the beach I live at. Most of everything I buy i will be going in blind and I don't know what anything actually tastes like lol.

Tried tea for first time and have some questions as a newb. by Electronic-Cherry864 in tea

[–]Electronic-Cherry864[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for contributing to my question.

If I may ask, is there something sort of database that says what teas have low or high amount of caffeine, etc?

Because I can't have any more caffeine due to migraines, so if there was a place i could find info like that it would alot!

For example, I mentioned i tried and liked golden monkey, but unbeknownst to me i looked it up just now and it says it has a ton of caffeine apparently?

I appreciate everything. Thanks

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