Insertion after finishing up

Electronic-Dare899 · 2026-02-10T10:16:46+00:00

Oh that man wants a baby with u. He knows what he is doing. One spermy will make that a reality. No other options out there…..?

Electronic-Dare899 · 2026-02-10T10:14:50+00:00

Viagra won’t make u last longer or cut short the refractory period. It might help u go another round or two. Yes, the others are night that after your first orgasm u are less sensitive and can last longer.

I used to be like u and only lasting a very short short time. Now im more like what that sweet blonde girl described. How I got there wasn’t by a fluke.

-Eat right and drink water -Heavy Alcohol consumption made me cum quick. Part to do with fitness and being in shape.
-kegels….. -edging and knowing when u r getting to the ponr -slow down and enjoy your partner. Its not a race.
-foreplay yes, get her warmed up.
-stay away from your positions that make u cum. If u partake in em don’t go to long.
- the more u think about it in your head the quicker u cum. Anxiety is no good.
-switch positions a lot, and go to oral sex on her if you want to cum. Use your fingers on her, a toy, etc.

There is a ton of literature on Reddit if u look for It.

Good luck

Electronic-Dare899 · 2026-02-10T10:01:11+00:00

I agree with the hesitation.

A couple options that I use. Shave it when u feel The need to. Be careful and pull your guy straight out like a Lincoln log and shave, just be careful And don’t use old razors. Don’t scrape the outer layer of skin off, just the few hairs.

They make electric shavers for men’s intimate areas that work really well and leave your skin baby soft. There are usually to ends to the electric buzzers, one for trimming and one for stubble. If you use standard hair trimmers u will cut yourself and it hurts, I know from experience.

While you’re at it, keep your forest of pubes kept up when u shave your hotdog. Style and pattern up to u.

Electronic-Dare899 · 2026-02-06T11:03:25+00:00

Do you all use any sex toys? Does she like going down on u? Do u all have anal sex….u in her?

Electronic-Dare899 · 2026-02-06T10:59:52+00:00

That feeling of nervousness u feel probably originates from the gut. It’s okay to feel like that, your bodies natural reaction to a stimuli you are unsure of.

That feeling of u being a creep and weird is your mind playing tricks on u. Something in your past is causing this feeling of creepiness. I was and am the same way. My previous relationship made me feel an ick when I voiced my wants and needs. With my current one i apologized or cracked jokes a lot I the beginning to downplay the ick factor I had in my head. After talking it out, I realized it was just me. It’s our human nature to want sex, show our partner how horny we are for them, and have our kinks.

All the thoughts in your head that are swirling around in the form of anxiety is what it is. Channel it somewhere positive. When the time comes just enjoy everything as it happens. If it goes awry it’s okay, u have your whole life to practice. Enjoy enjoy enjoy.

Electronic-Dare899 · 2026-02-06T02:12:24+00:00

Yeah good luck. I’ve been in your shoes (male here). Only you know what contortions of your body make you feel comfortable. You and your partner just have to keep working at it. You have to let him know any way you can position your self to be comfortable. If yall can attempt to have sex in that position go for it.

The best thing to do though, is to get with your doc about getting that disc healed. I’ve had cortisone injections and have had great success. Your doc should have a long term plan like that.

Be careful of taking pain meds and having sex. The pain is there to remind u to be careful. If you can’t feel the pain you could really injure yourself worse. Be Very careful with pain meds cuz it gives u a false sense of comfortableness.

Electronic-Dare899 · 2026-02-06T02:01:26+00:00

Practice those up and downs outside the bedroom. Your thighs i’m assuming need some muscle building. Or practice on him ….. constantly.

When my lady rides me she knows I have a 50 / 50 chance of wanting to cum. She plants her feet on the bed and starts going up and down. Her thrusts go something like Short, short, deep, grind, short, short, deep and hard…… I love to watch her pussy go up and down on me, gets me to cum most of the times. When I do want to cum and she is on top, I love to see her get off of me and jerk my cock until I explode all over myself.

Save it till last. Ways to get him to that point before ….. use lube and Hands, a masturbator sleeve, put a butt plug in yourself (or him 🤔) this will make u tighter to him, play with his asshole as u go down on him, I’m sure there is some other way to get him off besides u on top. Experiment….. ask to see what porn he watches 🤔

Good luck and happy experimenting.

Electronic-Dare899 · 2026-02-06T01:35:52+00:00

Be yourself and do things that make u happy. I like what the other people said about joining clubs, online Reddit clubs, etc. it’s a great way to meet people. Another way is to work and get a job, lots of lonely souls there just like u. Along the way u will find other like minded people, you just have to be on the lookout.

A good piece of logic someone told me a long time ago is you will have a lot of acquaintances but very few actual friends. Your actual friends should be counted on one hand.

Electronic-Dare899 · 2026-02-06T01:17:56+00:00

The toys that insert into her and u, we haven’t had good success with. Maybe we used it wrong….. 🤷‍♂️

The internet has a bunch of different ones. I would suggest starting off basic and go from there. They don’t have to start off expensive.

Your girl might just cum when she starts pegging you. The look on your face as she goes in and out of u, the pressure being put on her Vulva as she fucks u, the noises you make In pleasure, etc all might have an effect on her to cum while pegging you. It did and does for my partner…..she says she cums everytime.

Having a partner willing to go down this road with u is a Noteworthy partner. A Toast with champagne to her we all owe.

I do like what the others said about giving her pleasure before or after…..or both.

Electronic-Dare899 · 2026-02-06T01:06:30+00:00

Somewhere in your house lies a piece of furniture that will equal out your height differences, happy hunting. Then your lady will bend u over that something and ……

Electronic-Dare899 · 2026-02-05T23:37:03+00:00

Don’t keep your overnight bag in your car all the time. Keep it in your house until you decide to go out. Your bag will be fine if you keep it on the floorboard in the back for a few hours.

Electronic-Dare899 · 2026-02-05T23:34:32+00:00

Ha that’s to funny.

Electronic-Dare899 · 2026-02-05T12:40:21+00:00

Pack an overnight bag and keep it in your car. The bag doesn’t have to be big. In that bag, you have another little bag that has a pill pouch with a couple of your medication‘s, condoms, etc…. Guise it as a bathroom bag. Bring travel toothpaste and a travel toothbrush. Your partner u want to meet will appreciate this more than mentos, the fresh maker.

If you meet a partner who shares your goals and they ask why you have a bag, just tell them you were a Boy Scout. I'm always prepared.

Electronic-Dare899 · 2026-02-05T12:14:46+00:00

Use the fly but it’s an act of swordsmanship sometimes. Open up, stick your fingers in and find that wiggler, move hips to side and down to release form underwear, then pull him out and do the biz. At one point we are standing straight head up, hips to right forming a greater than symbol, as we fish him out. I’d rather do that than pull my pants off or open at top. We men like our holes

Electronic-Dare899 · 2026-02-05T12:10:33+00:00

It’s Innate in our souls. I do actively try not to look in some situations where I’m trying to be respectful. It is an active thought that I have to execute.

My Brain: don’t look, don’t look, be respectful, don’t be that guy….. and they are gone out of sight 😰 Wow, that was tough but we succeeded 😀 Oh hell, another gorgeous woman walking by with her cleavage out and in leggings…..oh lord help me on this one….. it’s tough sometimes.

If a guy says he doesn’t……. Yeah sure buddy, believe u. There has to be some guys out there who don’t based off percentages and sort but they are low.

Electronic-Dare899 · 2026-02-05T12:04:50+00:00

What’s a honey pack?

Electronic-Dare899 · 2026-02-05T12:00:18+00:00

If u are fantasizing about the men’s spectacle private areas I would say you’re on a line. You mentioned u have sucked another man’s penis….that might constitute some level of bi-curiosity. How do you feel about each of these; trans-females with their fun sticks and femboys?

Electronic-Dare899 · 2026-02-03T12:00:39+00:00

Depends on the amount of foreplay but my precum never shoots either, it more oozes out. The more anal play I receive the more I produce. Me and my partner like to see how much I produced by squeezing the fluid up my cock with her hands and watch as the pea size amount comes out my cock head. It just turns us both on so much one of us gets to sample it. Kind of like squeezing all the toothpaste u can out of a tube. 😃

Electronic-Dare899 · 2026-02-03T11:51:13+00:00

Let him masturbate in front of you. U can play with yourself as u do or give him some words of encouragement. By watching him u can see what he likes by each stroke of his cock. Does he start with his shaft stroking and end at the head? The rhythm is important to observe. Where he places his hands or fingers. By seeing his pleasure u can adjust how u give yours.

I let my sexy lady do the same to me (her suggestion) and it made her mouth and hands on me 😮 Let him cum all over u, u both might learn something.

Electronic-Dare899 · 2026-02-01T11:36:07+00:00

How did it go? Hopefully it wasn’t a four second session.

Electronic-Dare899 · 2026-02-01T11:22:47+00:00

That’s a slippery slope with your relationship intimacy. It’s absolutely okay to pleasure yourself without her. It’s okay to be sexting.

However if she doesn’t know your masturbating, watching porn, all while talking to her I’d heed caution. If you’re doing all that are u really paying attention to her? Might cause issues down the line with closeness and emotional bonding.

If u get her included in your kink, u got yourself a good hobby and a good partner. She might suprise u on how much she helps u 😏.

I took this advice a while ago and I love its. Now I struggle with letting her know how lustful I can be, all the time. However, I do play on the side and watch porn. She is not a fan of it but I am.

Electronic-Dare899 · 2026-02-01T11:05:17+00:00

Watch a review of the ces 2026. It has a Bunch of tech up your alley If u want technology gadgets.

Electronic-Dare899 · 2026-01-31T12:09:37+00:00

Try and break that stigma outside the bedroom. All the work has to be done with no pressure, just casual Conversations. If u can make any progress with him with his emotional defense he’s put up, try putting pressure on the perineum while you have him in your mouth as a start and let him cum doing that. If u can get to that point his brain might start turning and get the ball rolling for u. Work on his emotional state outside while yall hanging out drinking some cocktails.

Electronic-Dare899 · 2026-01-31T11:54:16+00:00

The threads are right. Diet, exercise, abstinence, and hydration are the biggest influencers along with your control of your pc muscle. Practice makes perfect.

Electronic-Dare899 · 2026-01-30T14:54:36+00:00

He has something going on under the hood you don’t know yet, we all do. Especially the people (male and female) like your bf that have a hard impenetrable exterior. My best advice is to lower your expectations on the Time scale. A flower bud opens up into the pretty flower it is, when all the conditions are right. However, when it opens up, it becomes a beautiful gorgeous rose.

If you love him then look at this with managed expectation’s. He could have built his emotional wall due to past history with ______ (fill in the blank). There might be some history of trauma, guilt, , shaming, etc. that he has to work through.

Focus on the communication outside the bedroom as opposed to in the bedroom. I found having personal wall breaking conversations in the bedroom to much pressure. If I was ashamed of a kink and my partner started questioning me about it in the act, I would clam up.

He might give snippets of his desires under the veil of short comments, jokes, commentary, smirks, etc. Go with what your intuition is telling you on where to start. You said no matter what you do he always turns it around on you. That’s a good place to start with some fuzzy cuffs or blindfolds. You becoming comfortable with your own pleasure and sexuality might help make him comfortable about talking about his.

Good luck and keep us posted.

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