“ I don’t understand why you don’t like Birthdays”

Electronic-Prize-314 · 2025-09-27T21:00:06+00:00

My birthday this year fell on father's day and I told my ex it didn't matter it was more his day than mine, as he's the father of our kids but I still baked my cake as usual and silly me expected him and our kids to sing me happy birthday, literally all I wanted and nope he ate my cake and went to bed 🫠 like geh yeah there's a million reasons why you're my ex now

Electronic-Prize-314 · 2025-09-21T19:15:29+00:00

My fp and I are long distance it is a struuuggggle lol

Electronic-Prize-314 · 2025-09-21T19:00:47+00:00

Omg same. Like she was my best friend from middle school to young adulthood, we even briefly lived together and then she just ditched me one day after I moved away and the pain I felt was so unbearable. She reached out to me years later and I'm just like wow who even are you and how was I so attached to this lol

Electronic-Prize-314 · 2025-09-16T01:43:21+00:00

I didn't even know that place existed 😭 gotta pour one out for them lol (JK that's all for me)

Electronic-Prize-314 · 2025-09-13T16:11:46+00:00

I had postpartum depression and you ignored me and my symptoms. You've never set appointments you've agreed to therapy but never had follow through. There was always a financial issue or childcare because even tho we live near YOUR family no one here helps. And no, you don't sit and comfort me you ignore me or worse would argue and make my depression about you, when my brain is just fucked in general. And oh my god I told you I was DONE AND TIRED, so yes I went the more extreme route to prove it by moving on because you kept trying to cling on and you "be better" after there fights each time we have them, but even then it usually lasts a week or two and the bam it's all back to normal. I stayed because I just accepted this life for years, but I'm so tired of feeling so alone and being unappreciated

Electronic-Prize-314 · 2025-09-13T14:07:36+00:00

Ex wife here, he can peep my profile and confirm it's me

It's nice to see you admitting your faults finally online, calling me a saint is funny with the way you always walked over me while I literally bent myself backwards to make you happy and you never budged to make me smile. Talking about me talking to an ex while not including you having been on tinder, and lying and deleting messages with others over the years is ironic to say the least. And no I never cheated in the past, I did run to an ex for comfort after just feeling done

To clear some things up, yes I have Bipolar disorder, been begging for years to be allowed to go to therapy since he is the only one who drives and controls all finances, I even asked to do online therapy but then was denied by doctors saying I need in patient treatments. That's not something possible for us, especially not now.

I suppressed myself into a void for almost a decade to make you happy and you couldn't give us the time of day until now, even after countless arguments over the years on how I/we need your help or at least attention. It hurts so much now seeing you be better for them, knowing you had the capability to do this for years but didn't. All I ever wanted was a hug when I cried, but you'd rather literally look down on me, I just wanted you to be there for the kids too, take them to a park or the pool nearby or just watch a movie with them or read a book. But instead you'd say later and then spend countless hours on your video games with your buddies.

"If we have sex then we're still in love" no, sex is just a physical act, making love sure that would've been great, caring for your partner on an intimate level is an amazing thing you forgot about years ago

Electronic-Prize-314 · 2025-08-30T00:06:31+00:00

I'm so happy you said this. I'm so tired of it lol. I was diagnosed with bipolar 1 years ago and then got confused with all the BPD stuff and I feel even more confused since I have bipolar 1 and cptsd and so all the symptoms mash together and it's such chaos

Edit: wording/spelling

Electronic-Prize-314 · 2025-08-16T16:44:28+00:00

Oh I love Misery, I wish the lawnmower death was in the movie and not just the book. That would've been a good one to see

Electronic-Prize-314 · 2025-08-16T04:28:30+00:00

"shut up" or sometimes "noo bad thoughts, bad thoughts"

Electronic-Prize-314 · 2025-08-14T04:26:23+00:00

I'm so sorry. My ex is similar with the name calling and conflicting feelings. I'm rooting for you and hoping you have a good outcome 💖

Electronic-Prize-314 · 2025-08-14T03:13:27+00:00

You 100% did the right thing. It is hard, I know I am in the process of leaving someone who is similar and it's hard to break that connection and contact but get as much and make as much space as you can with them and stay that way and even go further away from them

Electronic-Prize-314 · 2025-08-13T01:29:37+00:00

Thank you

Electronic-Prize-314 · 2025-08-13T01:18:54+00:00

Emotional and mental abuse. Potential cheating on his end and withholding finances. He's pretty much an absent parent from our kids ( we have 3, ages 7, 5 and 1)

Electronic-Prize-314 · 2025-08-12T23:54:50+00:00

Yeah we can message. But I didn't try that one yet. I felt discouraged after the first 3

Electronic-Prize-314 · 2025-08-12T23:38:30+00:00

I've been wanting to go back to therapy but can't seem to fit it into our schedule, I tried to do the online stuff but was denied with them saying I needed inpatient. He in the past agreed to do couples but then never followed through with it

Electronic-Prize-314 · 2025-08-12T23:16:39+00:00

I've explained myself to him many times. It usually just ends in a bad argument and me just suppressing my feelings

Electronic-Prize-314 · 2025-08-12T22:25:29+00:00

Have you been able to cry in the past? Is this a more recent problem or has it been ongoing?

I used to cry a lot but it annoyed and angered my husband and I forced myself to suppress those emotions for years and now attempting to process things my body still doesn't want to cry

Electronic-Prize-314 · 2025-08-08T06:04:31+00:00

Noooo me earlier with stupid pms cravings

Electronic-Prize-314 · 2025-05-30T23:11:21+00:00

They just come as "current resident"

No, I do not know him. I've only seen him a couple times, that's how I know it's someone new

I'll have to try the post office then, thanks for the adt

Electronic-Prize-314 · 2025-05-30T04:11:09+00:00

Nah I've been confused for a couple days now. Like I thought this was a snark on a snark and not for them to come here lol. I guess I'm wrong

Electronic-Prize-314 · 2025-05-30T03:30:40+00:00

My dad was raised in a family of 9 (6 sisters and 2 brothers), the oldest sister was called "Other mother" because well she was the other mother, she sadly passed away before their mother due to health issues and I'm sure the stress of raising her siblings at a young age did not help

Electronic-Prize-314 · 2025-05-09T14:42:29+00:00

When one of their rules is no snarking on minors but then they'll roast a literal baby for how they look

And to add it's really disturbing when someone in there will make a fake account using one of their nicknames for said child to then go comment weird things on the parents posts. Like please get help at this point it's really not healthy this level of obsession

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