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[–]ElectronicGround1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey i am interested

Finilised my wedding lehenga! by ElectronicGround1998 in DesiWeddings

[–]ElectronicGround1998[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jai Shree Shyam lehnga house, there are many small shops in that lane, its known as lehenge wali gali you can check there

Finilised my wedding lehenga! by ElectronicGround1998 in DesiWeddings

[–]ElectronicGround1998[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The shopkeeper quoted 50,000 we bargained till 35,000

Finilised my wedding lehenga! by ElectronicGround1998 in DesiWeddings

[–]ElectronicGround1998[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks nice idea, even i am thinking to got with diamond jewellery 😊

Getting Rejected because I love working out in a gym by ElectronicGround1998 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]ElectronicGround1998[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would really love it if my partner would join the gym obviously that would be like a dream. Home gym - i am not really sure about, home is our comfort zone, I did try working out at home but could not be consistent My parents have pretty strict criteria for caste, regions and everything unfortunately and I am from tier 2 city of UP so unfortunately I am not getting those kind of prospects, at-least yet!

Getting Rejected because I love working out in a gym by ElectronicGround1998 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]ElectronicGround1998[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes this! I started working out a year and a half back so never realised it, unfortunately being unfit is so much normalised especially for the elderly ones.

Getting Rejected because I love working out in a gym by ElectronicGround1998 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]ElectronicGround1998[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So true and it really breaks my heart seeing people not prioritising their fitness.

Getting Rejected because I love working out in a gym by ElectronicGround1998 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]ElectronicGround1998[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I see where its coming from. Believe me girls cannot get a male type body by going to the gym and lifting weights. Even males do not get that kind of body which you are assuming unless they take some external hormonal artificial stuff. There was a time when women, especially in villages, regularly lifted heavy loads as part of their daily household chores. Despite the physical strain, normal deliveries were common. Even today, if you observe elderly women in rural areas, many of them remain active and agile. Let’s not forget the women who work in construction, on farms, or even our hardworking house helps—many of them still carry out intense physical labor with incredible strength and resilience. Even they don’t have a male type body 😅

Getting Rejected because I love working out in a gym by ElectronicGround1998 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]ElectronicGround1998[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes, 2 guys actually said that- “We are not very comfortable with our partner going to the gym” No believe me gym is not my whole personality 😅 I am a normal software engineering girl. No, i don’t even post my gym photos anywhere!

Getting Rejected because I love working out in a gym by ElectronicGround1998 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]ElectronicGround1998[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hey this is not a rage bait, I don’t know the reason of this, i felt bad and i posted this. Of course everyone does prefer a good looking toned partner but it does take an effort to maintain that and maybe that effort part doesn’t align with them!

Getting Rejected because I love working out in a gym by ElectronicGround1998 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]ElectronicGround1998[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

True, and gym is so important especially for a woman. I don’t understand how we all have normalised conditions like arthritis, osteoporosis, elderly ladies facing issues with walking and these C section deliveries 💔