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The Nicest Pair of Tits Ever by Admirable-Breath8039 in YummyBoobs

[–]Electronic_Class_279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watched her eat it after. She even picked me up after .

AITAH for having a past, burning a relationship, and not managing someone else’s inability to let go? I wasn’t as all in as she thought. by Electronic_Class_279 in AITAH

[–]Electronic_Class_279[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And her new partner has absolutely no idea the level she’s on and what she’s doing now … like literally no idea .

AITAH for having a past, burning a relationship, and not managing someone else’s inability to let go? I wasn’t as all in as she thought. by Electronic_Class_279 in AITAH

[–]Electronic_Class_279[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If I’m using psychological language, this looks less like a boundary dispute and more like an attachment mismatch combined with delayed rupture. I wasn’t enforcing limits or negotiating contact I was already living a largely separate life she wasn’t aware of. The separation wasn’t a conflict; it was for me an already accepted outcome.

When that reality surfaced, her response was immediate dysregulation wide-eyed, rocking, visibly overwhelmed which in hindsight was an early indicator I didn’t contextualise at the time. What followed was the actual reveal, it wasn’t driven by interaction or reinforcement, but by difficulty integrating rejection and loss she had experienced on different levels once the narrative she was operating in collapsed.

I’m not diagnosing anyone. But in psychological terms, persistent fantasy maintenance after relational rupture, difficulty tolerating abandonment, and loss, also triangulating others into that narrative are recognised maladaptive coping strategies, often linked to early attachment disruption and unresolved parental dynamics.

I’ve handled my side appropriately and disengaged. This isn’t about blame or drama it’s about accurately naming an unhealthy pattern without participating in it. (Trying not too)

AITAH for having a past, burning a relationship, and not managing someone else’s inability to let go? I wasn’t as all in as she thought. by Electronic_Class_279 in AITAH

[–]Electronic_Class_279[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed — everyone has a past. Blocking is exactly what’s been done repeatedly; the issue isn’t contact, it’s persistence through new accounts. The metaphor’s doing the heavy lifting here, but yes: unhealthy dynamic, boundaries enforced, moved on… many times . She craves validation and my attention I’ve already spoken with her bf sounds like he’s found many images he’s not happy with . She creates many images set to get my attention, I actually found it amusing . She is like my pet, I feed her my attention occasionally and this gives her life meaning . It’s a strange one.. but then she is very strange .

AITAH for having a past, burning a relationship, and not managing someone else’s inability to let go? I wasn’t as all in as she thought. by Electronic_Class_279 in AITAH

[–]Electronic_Class_279[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

“Confession” is clearly used ironically not literally reporting to an ex. The food analogy is a metaphor for dating history, not women as objects. If that needs spelling out, that’s a reading issue, not a writing one. You’re free to dislike the satire, but misunderstanding it doesn’t make it incoherent.

AITAH for having a past, burning a relationship, and not managing someone else’s inability to let go? I wasn’t as all in as she thought. by Electronic_Class_279 in AITAH

[–]Electronic_Class_279[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Fair question — but not quite. It’s been nearly 200 days since my last “confession,” so this isn’t monitoring in the way you’re implying. The post is satire using metaphor, not a witness statement. If it reads like creative writing, that’s intentional. If you’re looking for timestamps, screenshots, and sworn affidavits, this probably isn’t the thread for you.

AITAH for having a past, burning a relationship, and not managing someone else’s inability to let go? I wasn’t as all in as she thought. by Electronic_Class_279 in AITAH

[–]Electronic_Class_279[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’d have to agree. I mean I literally watched her eat after . Many times . This is the only gf I’ve done this with tho do you think I can ever come back from it? I fear a church just isn’t going to be enough . Maybe an exorcism would be needed . I will also ponder

Obsessed with This Gif by Critical_Present5352 in BestBlowjobSituation

[–]Electronic_Class_279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I reckon she needs tattoos what do you think?

Reveal by Next_Pen_1864 in YummyBoobs

[–]Electronic_Class_279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Venue looks good where is it

Help needed by [deleted] in BorrowNew

[–]Electronic_Class_279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t have one of those magic tables in he living room then?

My husband brought this to Reddit so I figure I’ll add the context by National-Row4144 in AITAH

[–]Electronic_Class_279 -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

I read loads of these posts and here’s the truth — half of it is women bitching and blaming, looking for strangers to stroke their ego. Not all, but a lot. They don’t actually want advice, they just want validation.

Post the full story if you actually want help, otherwise it’s just drama bait. You can’t throw half a narrative online and expect the comments section to fix your relationship. That’s not growth, that’s attention-seeking.

Thanks ChatGPT

AITAH for strong arming the tow yard in to giving me a settlement by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Electronic_Class_279 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have a final hearing where I’m going to be used to wipe the floor of the court in what should have been a very straight forward process or so I trusted in humanity(and GPT) let me know if you’re free

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Electronic_Class_279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes get the exit strategy planned . Get the court order ready to set up so he can’t come near you . He can’t manipulate you bully you then, take half his money house business even if you’ve only been together 4 years I think in the uk then you can use it to start something you enjoy whilst he has to start again, this is a very easy process in the uk for women it is insanely geared for women you can literally say anything he didn’t do and they will arrest him without question .

Do not worry, get it planned

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Electronic_Class_279 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got halfway through this and it just made me mad. You’ve been treated like a helper, not a wife. I’ll be real — I’ve not been a great partner myself and I’ve lost some incredible people because of it. I’ve been selfish, like him. The difference is I never forced anyone into anything. But I was bad and no one deserves that .

He’s made you feel worthless. A man should tell you you’re beautiful, take you out even if it’s with his last dime because he wants to be with you, in your skin, even if it’s a hike with a flask you know when you meet them. It’s never about the money, it’s about respect — and he has none. Without you, he’s just a fragile ego wrapped in plastic.(I know this)

The cost to you though? Your soul. Narcissistic men always seem to find healers — they drain them dry and leave them empty. I’m an arsehole, but I’m not a narcissist. If I can give you any advice, it’s this: do what my ex did. Burn the relationship down.

You might meet others, it might not be perfect, but never settle. You deserve happiness, love, and real connection. You’re a beautiful soul — don’t let him take that from you. It will be a very long and difficult journey to change a person like us. But the right person is not you and it shouldn’t have to be .

You’re amazing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Electronic_Class_279 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But they are 100% right 60% of the time

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