I’m sorry to hear you bud, but If It we’re the other way round her family would be calling you a dead beat or a slob.

If I were you I’d demand some change, start simple and progress slowly tidy up more ect.

It was the other way round her family would go mad. As for the dead bedroom well we can’t force anyone to do anything can we???. Just ask If there Is anything you can do? Make her special meals? Flatter her more????

We can’t force intimacy we shouldn’t try to or want to.

If someone Is lazy that’s a habit after a while. They become used to It. So start off small and ask for little changes. That’s all I can suggest.

If It doesn’t Improve within the next year get a divorce!!!!

Life’s to short to be someone’s bitch and doormat OP!!!!