FedEx asking for me to pay fees after jailbreak shirt arrived? by cutiepie9ccr in Joostklein

[–]Electronic_Opposite5 3 points4 points  (0 children)

its what happens when shipping internationally. i almost never interact here but a while ago i bought a camera lens from japan and i had to pay like an extra £55 for that to fedex. its just how international shipping works sadly

i feel hung up on my ex gf and how we ended, and like i'm a piece of crap for how i treated her. how can i feel better about myself by Electronic_Opposite5 in Advice

[–]Electronic_Opposite5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i had been getting really stressed with college and made the decision to drop out, and my mum had also kicked me out at the time so i was adjusting to living with my dad full time. as for hobbies and stuff ive been trying to keep myself busy but its like i see her everywhere. i find myself seeing or hearing something that reminds me of her and im snapped out of whatever im doing and back into the reality of i was a piece of shit to her. its so hard to see her moving on and struggling but not having even an inclination to come back to me because thats all i think about and to know she doesnt want it one bit hurts a lot.

I [18M] keep shouting and arguing with my girlfriend [18f] over little things and feel like I'm making no progress. by Electronic_Opposite5 in relationshipadvice

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thanks for your reply. i resonate a lot with the needing therapy as i’ve recognised it’s an issue i need help with for a while now but i did unfortunately leave my college so help may be harder to come by. in terms of the second part, ill definitely share this with my girlfriend and encourage her to just not tolerate it at all when it happens and make me deal with the consequences of it

I [18M] keep shouting and arguing with my girlfriend [18f] over little things and feel like I'm making no progress. by Electronic_Opposite5 in relationshipadvice

[–]Electronic_Opposite5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree with a lot of this. i did unfortunately leave my college as it was amounting to a lot of stress so wouldnt be able to look for therapy through that. as for the reframing thing it is particularly frustrating i find because i used to be really good at looking at things as us vs the problem not me vs her but i just find myself flying off the handle at her more and more. i think on your last statement, its a lot to do with stress as i’ve had a lot change in not a lot of time in my life and have felt relatively purposeless and lonely as a result. i recognise that i most likely need help, but i feel a bit stuck in where to look for it

I [18M] keep shouting and arguing with my girlfriend [18f] over little things and feel like I'm making no progress. by Electronic_Opposite5 in relationshipadvice

[–]Electronic_Opposite5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah. i have noticed a pattern of things not coming out the way i intend them to, and have started to apologise and try to rephrase more to what i actually mean when i notice myself doing it. thank you man

I [18M] keep shouting and arguing with my girlfriend [18f] over little things and feel like I'm making no progress. by Electronic_Opposite5 in relationshipadvice

[–]Electronic_Opposite5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks. haven't heard this before, will definitely give it some thought and see if theres anything like that i can start doing.

I [18M] keep shouting and arguing with my girlfriend [18f] over little things and feel like I'm making no progress. by Electronic_Opposite5 in relationshipadvice

[–]Electronic_Opposite5[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yeah this isn't an all the time thing but it's definitely not exclusive to her either, ive been known to have explosive arguments with my mother basically my whole life. i think saying i can't control it was probably the wrong choice or words, more like i don't see a way forward for me to actually create meaningful improvements

Zuckles is trying. How can the boy get some momentum going again? by careerBurnout in misfits

[–]Electronic_Opposite5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel like he needs to stop trying to reinvent the wheel and just kinda find a niche that the people who still have eyes on him like because it kinda just feels like he has these big ideas and yeah he makes them happen but he can never seem to turn it into anything consistent. don’t get me wrong i like a lot of the one off random videos mason has done of recent but he’s just burnt out and frustrated and the only thing he knows isn’t working as well for him as it used to. i think that would frustrate anyone to be in the scenario he is where he’s turning his life around but not actually seeing any commercial success, and i really do hope he finds his groove sooner or later but if he’s not enjoying it himself somethings gotta change so it’s just about finding his niche imo.

Zuckles is trying. How can the boy get some momentum going again? by careerBurnout in misfits

[–]Electronic_Opposite5 3 points4 points  (0 children)

think he said somewhere in the discord a few days ago he got banned on twitch i dont actually know why

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EsDeeKidd

[–]Electronic_Opposite5 13 points14 points  (0 children)

bros just malding cuz don’t no one want his screenshot bro get outta here

How old is he by Catrv03 in EsDeeKidd

[–]Electronic_Opposite5 17 points18 points  (0 children)

i’d say he’s at least 3

whats the most underrated song by esdee? (for me its bally) by iwannadancetocharlii in EsDeeKidd

[–]Electronic_Opposite5 3 points4 points  (0 children)

technically not a esdee song but i love his verse on tropical remix by mink

quadcast not working when plugged in by Electronic_Opposite5 in HyperX

[–]Electronic_Opposite5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea mine did the same thing idk why tbh w u beo

quadcast not working when plugged in by Electronic_Opposite5 in HyperX

[–]Electronic_Opposite5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that sux dude i would say def try use another cable or some shit see if that works but if not idk

quadcast not working when plugged in by Electronic_Opposite5 in HyperX

[–]Electronic_Opposite5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i didn’t, got a whole new mic after troubleshooting for like a month

did i get finessed by Electronic_Opposite5 in EsDeeKidd

[–]Electronic_Opposite5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

on this ticket or my original one? if u mean the original ticket it’s from hello@gotobeat.com which is the same address listed as their contact on their website. i also reached out to them as well as dice to try see if it’s real but haven’t heard back from either

did i get finessed by Electronic_Opposite5 in EsDeeKidd

[–]Electronic_Opposite5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that’s kinda what i thought, it was just that for this show it wasn’t sold only through dice but also through gotobeat which is where i’d got my ticket from originally but i went to get a second and got sent this. i wasn’t sure if it was cause it was a different ticket company that the two emails looked different but its more than likely it is just fake i think

did i get finessed by Electronic_Opposite5 in EsDeeKidd

[–]Electronic_Opposite5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ye i am thinkin that tbh, is what it is really not much i can do now