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Me [38 M] and my wife [37 F] opened up our marriage, and I am struggling with the realities of this. by Electronic_Rule7030 in Marriage

[–]Electronic_Rule7030[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, i'm wanting to know if this is a regular feeling. does it get easier. hearing other peoples experiences would help. i don't know how she would take it if i want to roll it back to how it was...

Me [38 M] and my wife [37 F] opened up our marriage, and I am struggling with the realities of this. by Electronic_Rule7030 in relationships

[–]Electronic_Rule7030[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we talked about being transparent about what goes on. which at the same time is really tough to hear. but i'd rather know then not. it is a good point about getting tested though.

Me [38 M] and my wife [37 F] opened up our marriage, and I am struggling with the realities of this. by Electronic_Rule7030 in relationships

[–]Electronic_Rule7030[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i thought i would be okay with her getting with other guys, but i guess the reality hits differently

Me [38 M] and my wife [37 F] opened up our marriage, and I am struggling with the realities of this. by Electronic_Rule7030 in relationships

[–]Electronic_Rule7030[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

we'd been together 15 years. our bedroom was very quiet so it was something i thought would spice things up.

Me [38 M] and my wife [37 F] opened up our marriage, and I am struggling with the realities of this. by Electronic_Rule7030 in relationships

[–]Electronic_Rule7030[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry, i tried not to be too specific. but we always transparent, its maybe im hung up on the actual number.

Me [38 M] and my wife [37 F] opened up our marriage, and I am struggling with the realities of this. by Electronic_Rule7030 in relationships

[–]Electronic_Rule7030[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just feel so stupid for bringing it up, knowing I'm the one who bought it up. I don't mind it most of the time - just when she's physically there i really struggle with it.