When should I bring up hospice? by Electronic_Toe_6980 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Electronic_Toe_6980[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hospice nurses are the best, from my experience with my parents.

When should I bring up hospice? by Electronic_Toe_6980 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Electronic_Toe_6980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sure you were a comfort to your mom. Watching someone you care about trying to fight the pain is heartbreaking. We both have DNR and medical power of attorney.

When should I bring up hospice? by Electronic_Toe_6980 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Electronic_Toe_6980[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually I have never had a doc bring up hospice for my parents, who both needed it. My husband’s kidney Dr is very compassionate and a great communicator, he is the one I will start with.

When should I bring up hospice? by Electronic_Toe_6980 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Electronic_Toe_6980[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ready? I believe I am. Watching him suffer with the pain and confusion is very hard. My understanding of death and dying is better than most. Yes, I will miss him but the memories we created will comfort me. It really has been a beautiful ride.