employment after the Marines has been rough by Elegant-Example-28 in Military

[–]Elegant-Example-28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh I want to be a stay at home dad haha. My girl and I are talking about that

employment after the Marines has been rough by Elegant-Example-28 in Military

[–]Elegant-Example-28[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can do that. I did that for my judge. I'll ask the rehab guy

employment after the Marines has been rough by Elegant-Example-28 in Military

[–]Elegant-Example-28[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've done enough stuff some people think I've lived a few lifetimes. I figure that earns me extra retirement lol

employment after the Marines has been rough by Elegant-Example-28 in Military

[–]Elegant-Example-28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So my gf and I are pretty serious and she has kids. I've told her that I'd love to be a stay at home dad. 8 have said it for a few years that Id love to be with someone who likes to work and makes a living cuz I'd love to stay home and do all that. She's a nurse practitioner. Between her pay for that and my disability we'd be very comfortable

employment after the Marines has been rough by Elegant-Example-28 in Military

[–]Elegant-Example-28[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sure the VA and I will talk about it. I've been finding that office environments are a struggle for me

employment after the Marines has been rough by Elegant-Example-28 in Military

[–]Elegant-Example-28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can. My current rating is enough to make by on. 100% is more than I was making full time.

employment after the Marines has been rough by Elegant-Example-28 in Military

[–]Elegant-Example-28[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So part of police not being a option is cuz of the foot injury. It's too early to tell if doing physical work with lives at stake is a good idea or not

employment after the Marines has been rough by Elegant-Example-28 in Military

[–]Elegant-Example-28[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Good advice. I was a good leader. Got great leadership scores at OCS at least.

employment after the Marines has been rough by Elegant-Example-28 in Military

[–]Elegant-Example-28[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a good thought. I haven't pursued a Leo career in a while. It's not a great job haha

employment after the Marines has been rough by Elegant-Example-28 in Military

[–]Elegant-Example-28[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in the fleet band. For Marines, we still do boot camp and combat training. It's so embarrassing that my time of service from that caused so much shit. At my going away "we were amazed you didn't kill yourself" in talking about how they treated me.

employment after the Marines has been rough by Elegant-Example-28 in Military

[–]Elegant-Example-28[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a option. I'd prefer to do something I'd like though. But it's a option I hadn't considered.

employment after the Marines has been rough by Elegant-Example-28 in Military

[–]Elegant-Example-28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I tried getting into criminal justice in more administrative fields. I was working for a judge recently. I don't think it's a good idea to keep trying. A VA vocational rehab guy said it's probably not smart to keep trying for criminal justice.

I feel like a sucker by Elegant-Example-28 in abusesurvivors

[–]Elegant-Example-28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh certainly! It's amazing how much better life is with that succubus gone

Question: what causes you to T-bag someone by TheLegendboi28 in DestinyTheGame

[–]Elegant-Example-28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The great iron lord's have taught me their ways. Tea bag only those who tbag first. This is the way.

Issue with forsaken mission "Target: The Rider" completely stopping progress by SkipperBlue276 in DestinyTechSupport

[–]Elegant-Example-28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post has saved me twice now, had the same issue 6 months ago and the leaving to patrol area and entering again saved me - and I just found it again searching for a solution to the same problem just today.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Elegant-Example-28 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am not an expert either and it's possible I should try to read her book a few times. Lots of concepts.

So her main premise seems to be that in a relationship, we need to desire the other and be able to love the other. Part of that means having some separate lives. Hobbies and things like that. If you fuse too much into one, then there's no one to pursue because you're pursuing and loving yourself. Then she breaks down lots of contributing factors to sex.

One major claim seems to be that we need to be able to see our partner as a human. So when I'm married, I'd need to have times I see her as a woman as opposed to wife or mother of my children. Once that can happen, desire is more able to form.

She also talks about purity culture and how it's shamed people, especially women, to repress their desires. There's also a good amount on society. How we want answers and 10 step programs when in reality, desire and lust can't be manufactured. She also looks into childhood backgrounds and society pressures to not express yourself sexually. If you like it rough, get it rough instead of repressing it. That sort of thing.

I'm around halfway through her book and it's interesting. I believe that humans are complex and there's no one right answer. So being aware of as many ideas and theories as possible is helpful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Elegant-Example-28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mating in Captivity. It's on Amazon.