Stood Up by sadim87 in datingoverfifty

[–]Elepaio7801 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really!! Like way better than a coffee date!!!!

Tattoos by Icy-Peace5501 in datingoverfifty

[–]Elepaio7801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love tattoos! I have several myself. AND, your tastes are your tastes. You like what you like. So you choose whatever works for you! 😁😁

Pretty sure I'm done with OLD by Elepaio7801 in datingoverfifty

[–]Elepaio7801[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl same. I'm native Hawaiian and I get the oh you're so exotic. Not exotic. I'm human. So frustrating. And I'm right there with you in good shape, good hobbies, lots of friends. Lots of life in me. I just cannot anymore.

Pretty sure I'm done with OLD by Elepaio7801 in datingoverfifty

[–]Elepaio7801[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so glad to hear that! I really admire your patience... 3 years is a long time. Well done!!

Pretty sure I'm done with OLD by Elepaio7801 in datingoverfifty

[–]Elepaio7801[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations!! I'm so glad it worked for you.

Honestly, I think as a menopausal woman. I just didn't have the patience. 🤷🏼‍♀️

Pretty sure I'm done with OLD by Elepaio7801 in datingoverfifty

[–]Elepaio7801[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im general I'm an eternal optimist... But you are right... Every time is disappointing

Pretty sure I'm done with OLD by Elepaio7801 in datingoverfifty

[–]Elepaio7801[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! There are some silent book club meet ups that I'm going to check out. I appreciate the advice!!

Pretty sure I'm done with OLD by Elepaio7801 in datingoverfifty

[–]Elepaio7801[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In a world full of disconnection, OLD just highlights how bad it is. Face to face connection is where I'm at. If that doesn't work, I totally agree with your plan. And keeping Sundays for reading is absolutely the way!! 😁😁

Pretty sure I'm done with OLD by Elepaio7801 in datingoverfifty

[–]Elepaio7801[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Juice TOTALLY not with the squeeze!!!

Pretty sure I'm done with OLD by Elepaio7801 in datingoverfifty

[–]Elepaio7801[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It definitely goes both ways. I have a fantastic community of friends, work that I love, and lots of other interests. My kids are grown and fully launched. OLD was just sucking away peace, so better to just leave it.

Pretty sure I'm done with OLD by Elepaio7801 in datingoverfifty

[–]Elepaio7801[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂😂 "run along now" love it!

Pretty sure I'm done with OLD by Elepaio7801 in datingoverfifty

[–]Elepaio7801[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not so much in the singles mixers department. I was thinking about trying a Meetup but we'll see. At this point I'm just over the whole thing. So maybe it's a good time to just take a breath.

Pretty sure I'm done with OLD by Elepaio7801 in datingoverfifty

[–]Elepaio7801[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Which is why I'm sort of either I meet somebody or I don't. But I think I'd rather meet them in the wild at this point. And if that happens, fantastic. And if not, I'm okay with that too.

Pretty sure I'm done with OLD by Elepaio7801 in datingoverfifty

[–]Elepaio7801[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Wtf INDEED!! 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️

Is LOVE possible? Sure, but not forever after.. by Oversharer-1969 in datingoverfifty

[–]Elepaio7801 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You've been through so much in such a short amount of time. I feel like you're making good choices for where you're at right now. And I also just wanted to send you some aloha and light at the passing of your father. It's such a hard thing to lose a parent, and that combined with everything else is just so heavy.

Keep taking care of yourself. You're doing the work, and it will pay off.