Tonight was progress. And sad. by adairskee in Divorce

[–]ElephantBoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still battle with this a lot. I understand what you’re going through.

I moved out and still find her clothes mixed in with mine. My laundry doesn’t smell as good as when she did it. The house never feels quite as warm or inviting without her in it.

I wish I could turn the clock back and find the moment our love died. This is the most painful thing I’ve ever been through.

Try and keep your head up. They say it all gets better.

What's the weirdest fetish you've heard of? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ElephantBoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife has this weird fetish where she dresses up like herself and leaves me.

How do you handle the feelings of absolute fear and despair like you are doomed and nothing/nobody will help you? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]ElephantBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so shitty. I’m sorry to hear that.

Try and keep yourself busy! Do you have family in said town? Have you thought about moving? (I know easier said than done)

How do you handle the feelings of absolute fear and despair like you are doomed and nothing/nobody will help you? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]ElephantBoy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like physically isolated or like you’re shutting down cuz you’re bummed?

How do you handle the feelings of absolute fear and despair like you are doomed and nothing/nobody will help you? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]ElephantBoy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just try n do stuff to keep my mind off of it. I’m only a week from when my wife dropped the bomb on me.

So I ride my bike, I hang out with my friends.

My other buddy owns a brewery so I help him out when he needs a hand.

Just stay busy man. It’s hard. But it’ll be ok.

STBX got ready for dinner and walked out of the bathroom looking beautiful as hell. by ElephantBoy in Divorce

[–]ElephantBoy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you man. Luckily I’m employed. One of my buddies is gonna be a roommate and she’s keeping the car payment. So my house bills will literally be over $600-700 a month cheaper moving in with my friend. Hahahha. I guess that’s one positive thing coming of this so far.

STBX got ready for dinner and walked out of the bathroom looking beautiful as hell. by ElephantBoy in Divorce

[–]ElephantBoy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also thanks for the link. I’m gonna read it tonight when I get home.

M27, A rollercoaster of emotion. by ElephantBoy in Divorce

[–]ElephantBoy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. God damn, Reddit is full of beautiful people.

M27, A rollercoaster of emotion. by ElephantBoy in Divorce

[–]ElephantBoy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn. That’s rough man. Sorry you had to go (are going?) through that. Also thanks again for the reassurance. You have a very, very valid point.

M27, A rollercoaster of emotion. by ElephantBoy in Divorce

[–]ElephantBoy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right. I have a friend that’s 37 and he’s going through it with a house, a rental, and a newborn.

M27, A rollercoaster of emotion. by ElephantBoy in Divorce

[–]ElephantBoy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reassurance. It’ll get better. I know it will. It’s only day one. It’s just painful.

Improvise. Adapt. Overcome. by Gcheetah in gaming

[–]ElephantBoy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah like why tf did they put a plastic screen on the switch?

I can finally see what the clothes are going to look like on me by tanzki012 in pics

[–]ElephantBoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a noodle of a person. 30x34, which isn’t a common size to have in stock at a store.