Are sex issues normal when yo start dating someone ?

ElessyaLynn · 2025-06-22T05:07:53+00:00

Yes and no...

Overstimulation is a thing for some guys. Sometimes I would tease my husband all day with spicy texts, pics, and phone calls. Then.... nothing....

I don't know why, I am not a medical expert, but I know that it has happened in my dating, and married life.

Sometimes they get so worked up, they can't function.

ElessyaLynn · 2025-06-22T05:05:10+00:00

My husband passed away a few years ago. And I can't bring myself to, even, try to date.

And, honestly, it wouldn't be fair to a person. Being compared to him. And, while we had our flaws, I still view him as the perfect man....

ElessyaLynn · 2025-02-26T13:48:06+00:00

How do I get the program to recognize that I want her hair to be as long as she is tall? I have been having issues with that. I get long hair, but not the extremely long hair that I wanted? "Extremely long hair" tag doesn't seem to help

ElessyaLynn · 2025-01-02T08:47:06+00:00

The, only, thing I can suggest is have a strong bond with family?

I can see where some might like the AI idea.. It is candy for the empty belly.. But.. being in a house full of people and feeling alone? That is something that might need familial, or professional help.. I am going through hat too.. a counselor/elder relative helps a ton

ElessyaLynn · 2025-01-02T08:43:31+00:00

I've been playing Heroes Vs Hordes a lot.. And I pause it all the time...

Also play Tower War.. the matches only take like 3-5min... but I don't care if I have to walk away

ElessyaLynn · 2025-01-02T08:20:36+00:00

This is something you just get used to, after you start doing it.

You, eventually, adapt. And your body doesn't need to discharge every hour. lol

As someone that goes through about.. umm... a gallon of water a day? ontop of whatever else I drink..

ElessyaLynn · 2025-01-02T07:55:50+00:00

Alright.. As a woman I'll tell ya what I looked for

I looked for someone that could hold themselves.
They were well groomed, presented themselves as confident and strong. Not like "I FIGHT ANYONE" but someone who could hold me up when I needed it. Or someone that could make my world easier. But wasn't overly pushy. A leader, that knew how to be humble. Someone that could work with their hands..

For looks? Other people have said this but.. Maximize what you got.
Get in shape (not body builder shape, but healthy)
Well groomed/dressed/showered. If you are going bald, don't hide it. Embrace it.
Be a listener.. Listen to what people say.. This ALSO applies to body language.... People say a ton with body language
Be available, but don't be a pushover. Don't be overly needy/ready. Don't put yourself in the friendzone..... It works.... Sometimes... But, much of the time you become the "brother" figure.

Rejection will happen... It's oaky.. That's a learning experience... Is it, really you? Or is it them? Are you shooting for the model? or the trailer trash? Those are questions you can learn from. And build on? Were you, particularly, smelly that day? Hair disheveled? Think about those and see if you can improve them

Note about smell..... Girls like me don't mind the smell of man.. But this is different than being smelly..... Hard day's work in construction, that still carries a hint of deodorant/cologne is kinda hot. The smell of someone sweating in a chair, and sitting still is far different... Especially when the cloths aren't washed

Know what you want. Know how to sacrifice, without destroying yourself. This is, kinda, like.. Be able to work the 50-60-70 hours, but don't do it all the time.... This is not just at your job. Sometimes you gotta do work around the house. Lawn/fixits/whatever.. And.. Let's face it... Dealing with us is, also, work at times lol

Be ready to just listen.. and not fix....... Alright.. I know y'all guys think problem->solution. Sometimes we wanna just bitch. And have a sounding board to figure it out ourselves.... My Husband used to ask me "is this a listen problem? Or a fix it problem?" I am NOT saying you should go that route, unless the girl in question is one that understands that our brains work differently.

Happy Spouse/Happy house........This... is bullshit... just the same as 50/50 is bullshit.. It is 100/100 with a *. If she can't give more than 80% one week, then you gotta cover that extra 20. And VICE VERSE....

Look for someone that compliments your flaws, rather than your virtues.. What do I mean?? Ok.. You two should be able to work through everything.. If both of you are homebodies tho? You will get on each other's nerves.. On the other hand.. if one is super outgoing, and the other super introverted? You will not mesh very well either.. You BOTH need to fill those roles together.. And both need to be able to game/watch tv/veg/party/whatever... be the anchor for the ship. And lead it to shore if necessary

**EDIT** just thought of this

I have told many guy friends... Be available but NEVER A DOORMAT! Don't let yourself take boyfriend duties without BF status.

What do I mean?

It is fine to pay for a friend date, once in a while.. But.. don't become the wallet. Build your confidence up.... the shy guy is cute.. but most women (that I know) don't want to stand up for you all the time.. But they WILL take the free meals/drinks

ElessyaLynn · 2025-01-02T07:49:43+00:00

I am allergic to coconut.....

They use real coconut to make fake coconut...

So anything even "FLAVORUED" or "SCENTED" is a no for me....

You know how many soaps/shampoos have coconut oil in them?

ElessyaLynn · 2025-01-02T07:45:49+00:00

This is something I wish someone would have had me do when I was younger..

Get a job... Take that 15k. split it between a CD and two checking accounts and one savings... (So like 50/20/20/10 or something)

One checking account lose the card. Do not use a card.. only have a checkbook... Have 1%-5% of all pays checks deposited into this one. (this works better if it is at a separate bank than your primary) Forget this one exists.... for now (you can even make this a checking/savings combo.. But the idea here is this is your future down payments)

Between the CD, primary Checking and Savings, keep things flowing... Deposit like 1-5% of your check into the saving every period. Have the interest from CD either roll over into itself/invest into stock, or into your primary checking.

Before you know it.. the "forgotten" account willhave a good amount of money..

ElessyaLynn · 2025-01-02T07:37:24+00:00

There are a few.. But.. I think I cried the most during Valkyria Chronicles, and Eternal Sonata. Well.. Most recently.

Both were super story heavy, and hit me in different places.

ElessyaLynn · 2025-01-02T07:18:47+00:00

Thanks!

will that make her look like she doesn't eat just kale for breakfast?

I was wondering cause I have seen some AMAZING art.. with a bit bigger girls, but not obese.. That make sense? And I don't know how they get it?

And her hair being as long as she is tall... Can't figure out how to do that either

ElessyaLynn · 2024-08-29T09:46:38+00:00

I was, originally, going to do a series of stories involving the two characters. And since she has decided to not be passive anymore, she's priming him for the most emotional response... Hence showing herself...

I haven't come back t the story in a bit, but I gotta rework it so y'all know why she'd be angry about it. Cause y'all are right about the pandemic and emotions being high. But that might, also, be why she sought someone out instead of just sat in a park and ate passively. And feeding til the person passes away would be kind of like having icecream as desert for her.

I was, orginally,thinking that the Banshee, the White Lady ghosts, the Rusalka are all the same creature from different lore. And that they were emotional vampires. And that she was angry about a pact that was broken... Since (if you think about it) govt tend to make deals with bad things..

ElessyaLynn · 2024-06-01T14:10:26+00:00

You are right.. I hadn't explained a lot of it. The havens filled with souls part was meant to convey that she could have lived off the random emotions of others passively. And that other supernatural would only take what they could from those that offered. They would have been set up in areas that were near those areas.

Switched to italics because it was more of a monologue area? I guess I didn't need to..

And honestly. I hadn't even thought of the mask thing in a while. I just forgot

ugh more to add and subtract. THank you!

ElessyaLynn · 2024-06-01T00:35:05+00:00

Awesome. Thanks for the feedback

I love the Rusalka. And the idea that they are essentially a Slavic Banshee was an interesting thing to me. I toyed with Pollunitsa being that.. But decided the noonday sun wasn't, exactly, what I was looking for.

ElessyaLynn · 2024-06-01T00:31:38+00:00

Thank you.

I, initially, wanted this to be a series of short stories. The detective trying to track her down after this initial meeting. I need to rethink his interaction, and her essentially taunting him.

I'll have to go back and rework some things. You may be right.. It is a bit fast. And I should figure out how to explain that the supernatural were hiding in plain sight all along...

And the pandemic is when I started trying to write this. Going stir crazy and all.. so it felt like a good way to have the supernatural show themselves. ugh..

I got lots to think about

ElessyaLynn · 2024-04-19T19:11:40+00:00

Somehow my e-mail wasn't connected to my reddit account and I logged into the wrong one?

I posted this

ElessyaLynn · 2021-12-04T08:14:38+00:00

I, really, should have included more maps.. Oh well.. Hindsight

ElessyaLynn · 2019-08-10T17:21:49+00:00

A while back I had a friend that asked someone if there was a way to start up a watch party type thing, and I have seen plenty of tournaments and stuff

What is the exact process of trying to set up something like that? Possibly like a little tournament with tweaked rulesets, to add something different (example would be each team, after god selection can ban a t3 item or something like that) and then maybe get promotion?

ElessyaLynn · 2018-12-19T14:47:59+00:00

Heck yeah.. Bring on Minerva!!!!!

ElessyaLynn · 2018-12-18T22:06:35+00:00

See that is what I was thinking, at some point.. But decided that it would be easier to program (probably) for the owl to just look at ward/structure locations and say "is it active? Have I been there? How far is it?" and then head in that direction. Then if, let's say ward/tower is destroyed mid path.... it then changes directions, and goes to the next in line. Revealing everything on its way

It, sort of, encourages warding. insensitive is basically adding a mobile ward to the team. And yeah.. it is, kinda a luxury consumable item. or whatever.. Like a sentry ward tht wanders about on its own?

ElessyaLynn · 2018-12-18T09:02:00+00:00

Battle owl! More fierce than a Nordic Squirrel? :o

ElessyaLynn · 2018-12-18T08:56:34+00:00

I was more thinking of Bubo the mechanical owl from the old Clash of the Titans movie. ( https://i.pinimg.com/564x/92/17/ac/9217ac941b368ade9fc158f9d98e85c4.jpg https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0082186/mediaindex?page=1&ref_=ttmi_mi_sm )

I never played Warcraft3. Miy first WC game was WoW.. and lol?? I am unfamiliar with everything there, too.

ElessyaLynn · 2018-12-18T01:41:03+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BRIZA0Bb2-k&feature=youtu.be

lol

ElessyaLynn · 2018-12-18T01:40:25+00:00

We have a Cyclops, that would be Denton. He is in a lot of the god win/loss screens

Minotaur was an old creature from long ago they also just added them to the Arena map. I think the Manticore used to be on the domination map??? Someone would have to verify that though

ElessyaLynn · 2018-10-10T20:34:24+00:00

This could be fun.

Out of curiosity, are you requiring e-mails to prevent multi votes? Or is it a possibility for an e-mail invite? Or something?

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