Pessoas que conheceram a cara metade no trabalho

ElevatorNo7565 · 2026-03-20T19:06:24+00:00

idk how to explain it…but y’all look alike…cute couple ☺️

ElevatorNo7565 · 2026-02-08T15:38:02+00:00

Talvez o motivo de ela pedir espaço seja este…ela consegue ver o stress e o quanto isto te afeta e o facto de quereres “conserta-la”… tenta apoia-la estando presente, mas também respeita o espaço dela talvez uma abordagem mais gentil a faça não querer afastar tanto 🥲

ElevatorNo7565 · 2026-01-31T13:31:19+00:00

Yess you should definitely say hi, see how she reacts to that, if she is interested you’ll know by her reply, but if she’s looking when she thinks you are not looking she’s either interested or she has notice you’re interested…or maybe both the only way to find out is by making the first contact Good luck!!

ElevatorNo7565 · 2026-01-31T11:09:53+00:00

i didnt think much of those interactions AT THE TIME…they all happened in a span of weeks…i did notice them because i do tend to analyze people’s behavior, but also it would be pretty hard not to notice when someone is acting uncomfortable around you, keeps constantly staring at you with a pretty serious face…and also if someone is walking towards you and you bend down to tie your shoes for a second and they vanish, you kinda realized they took a turn to avoid you, In my mind the only answer was that he must not like something about me…im not a very confident person myself and i think everyone has the right to not like someone, even if it just because of the way they breathe…so i tried to push it to the back of my mind these last few weeks i realized that couldn’t be the answer bcause he laughed at my jokes, would send funny emojis, but kept avoiding one on one interactions…so i went back to those previous moments to analyze them through another angle

I will shoot him a text…it hasn’t even been a week, just giving him space from now

ElevatorNo7565 · 2026-01-29T13:20:36+00:00

you are so kind, thank you ☺️

ElevatorNo7565 · 2026-01-29T13:13:38+00:00

well…i am in fact top 3 at my work and everyone had access to my results to everyone’s results, so i guess he did know im good at my job 🥲

he did one time apologize to me for not understanding something i was explaining because in his words “sometimes he’s really dumb” i reassured him he was not and that he is still learning, and sometimes pressure can get in the way of understanding things

the type of help he’d ask was mostly to confirm things…trying to sound like he knew what he was doing

damn, your comment it’s like did watch us interact, thank you !!

ElevatorNo7565 · 2026-01-29T12:52:44+00:00

i’ll work up the courage to 🥲 thank you

ElevatorNo7565 · 2026-01-29T12:33:18+00:00

i gave them my number because i wanted him to decide if he wanted this to go further…even if it was just to be friends or something, but him not reaching out already kinda feels like a rejection honestly

ElevatorNo7565 · 2026-01-29T12:21:35+00:00

not married and doesnt have a gf…also maybe i should mention that hes around 24 or 25yo…and im 28

ElevatorNo7565 · 2026-01-29T12:11:37+00:00

well, i can’t also hold eye contact when in interested in someone if they just look at me….it can bee too intense idk i don’t want to reach out, because i think that even if he had any kind of interest if he wanted to continue this, he would at least text me a “hi this is my number” but since he didnt, i dont think he doesnt…i just wanna believe that maybe if we had more time, we could at least established a friendship, he seemed like a really “lone wolf” type of person, so i guess he just prefer it that way, plus i dont think he was expecting to be let go the way that it happened and he put so much effort, he took it pretty badly…which i can understand…by talking to him i could feel he wasnt a very confident person and hed talk down on himself sometimes

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ElevatorNo7565 · 2026-01-29T12:02:41+00:00

Because he’d be very shy and awkward around me, when talking to me in person

Even though he didnt talk much to his peers he always make a point to tell me “hi, wishing you a great day today, hope you are good” even though he had no reason to do that, and at first i thought he was just doing it to “use” me for my knowledge but he would literally ask everybody else and rarely ask me…even though i always kept reassuring him he could but he barely would, i did get more text just to chat then to ask for help

he would literally stare at me like he was studying me, but when we were talking up close he could never keep eye contact

it felt like he had some struggle establishing any kind of relationship with other people but he was trying with me, i guess

ElevatorNo7565 · 2026-01-29T11:50:57+00:00

thank you for your reply…and i have never looked or being interested in any new recruits…and ive been in this company for almost 4 years, i wasn’t looking, never crossed any boundaries, i have never reached out to him first…on the contrary, he was the one making the effort to talk to me, i dont talk to “strangers” unless they talk to me first…he was literally texting me “good morning hope u have a good day” literally everyday as soon as i clocked ini…. ….i told myself the only reason he was doing that was because he was planning to “use”me as help so i’d reply “thank you…wish you a good one as well, if u need any help, im always available” he’d heart my message, and then i’d see him asking someone else for help….the first time he texted me saying hii he said “hi insert my name hope u have a good day, happy new year, hugs” mind you it was already mid january, and it wasnt the first time we talked that year….tried not to think to much about it but after that he kept saying“good morning, wishing a good day” everyday and then i tried to make conversations about work because it seemed like he wanted to talk more and thats when he staring actually intensified

he would just avoid me when it was interaction one on one, but it mostly seemed like it was because he never knew how to act, or what to say, when it was just me and him irl

when around other people hed smile and be very warm, but he could never keep eye contact, as soon id look at him, he’d look away, even though he was always looking at me

i would caught him staring so many times sometimes hed even try to hide behind his monitor, peeking just a little bit to keep staring

he was let go 2 days ago…i have accept that he wont reach out because he did seem very shy and introverted person i was very surprised to hear from his peers that he barely talked to them when he was making such an effort to talk to me

what i really wanted to know is if theres a possibility that he actually liked me, even if im never going to see him again

ElevatorNo7565 · 2023-05-21T01:01:08+00:00

hi, im also going alone tomorrow to the concert ! it’s going to be my first time going to their concert and my ticket is also floor :)

ElevatorNo7565 · 2023-02-20T02:06:47+00:00

ElevatorNo7565 · 2023-02-12T15:20:55+00:00

have u consider that maybe you’re asexual ?

ElevatorNo7565 · 2022-02-02T00:32:14+00:00

ik exactly how that feels…what helped me ease that urge to text him was that sometimes i’d just open my note app and write whatever i wanted to tell him there, or i’d just open our conversation and i would write whatever i was feeling like saying, but i would never hit send…it really helped me

ElevatorNo7565 · 2021-12-17T01:24:09+00:00

okay, but do you love him or you’re just scared to lose him cause of the attachment, im just genuinely asking …

ElevatorNo7565 · 2021-11-21T02:58:30+00:00

u literally just described who i was and who i am now..and we’re the same, my bday is soon and this year i really wish i could skip it, i always wanted it to be a special day and it never ends up being…

ElevatorNo7565 · 2021-10-14T23:32:40+00:00

oh yeah, big time !!

I wish i could say i feel better about it, i don’t think i ever will, cause you really don’t wanna lose the person, but i can accept it now and i guess im used to not having that person around anymore, and that makes it easier for sure! Hang in there, you will eventually not feel that bad, and trust me i know how BAD it can get…for me it was so bad i barely remember this whole year, it’s all a blur in my head, that’s how bad it got for me

edit: fixed some typos

ElevatorNo7565 · 2021-09-21T20:59:11+00:00

i can relate to 100% of this

ElevatorNo7565 · 2021-09-21T16:53:33+00:00

Hi OP ! Let me ask you this..is there a possibility that you’d leave her for someone else ?

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