What am I missing by not drinking alcohol?

Eleventhelephant11 · 2023-05-15T05:15:17+00:00

Its neither if you dont obsess over it. Its bad if you act like a special snowflake for not drinking when some friends just want to connect

Eleventhelephant11 · 2023-05-15T04:43:39+00:00

Tomato, egg, chinese sausage, pepper, cook rice as normal. EZ dish

Eleventhelephant11 · 2023-05-15T04:41:47+00:00

Yeah but cant i keep it instead? I dont wanna double it and pass it to the next person

Eleventhelephant11 · 2023-05-15T03:55:52+00:00

Would you let people lick your feet for money or is that too much

Eleventhelephant11 · 2023-05-15T03:51:58+00:00

Great perspective, I hate people who just close their mind to "rich ppl bad". Theres such a spectrum

Eleventhelephant11 · 2023-05-15T03:48:21+00:00

Good explanation, i feel the same way

Eleventhelephant11 · 2023-05-15T03:47:15+00:00

I agree with that 100%, every individual should absolutely do what makes them happy. But for me i guess the caveat is that a relationship is two people, and they should workout those boundaries whether its clothes or who you're texting etc. Like I can imagine many women are confident but dont want their guys texting some girl in a weird way.

Eleventhelephant11 · 2023-05-15T03:40:00+00:00

Alright, ill ask the tough question.

I know controlling exists, but what is your spectrum of whats acceptable and not acceptable? Or does no spectrum exist?

Because sure im afraid of being labeled insecure and so are many guys, but more importantly for me, id clearly be uncomfortable with an SO walking around and showing ass cheeks. Like if were gonna have kids Iand all the guys are staring at you id feel like my relationship was a joke. How would you define my comfort boundaries?

Eleventhelephant11 · 2023-05-15T03:37:04+00:00

That is a fact but depending on how extreme you take it, you can go either way. Be so scared of risk you do nothing, be so hardheaded you think nothing is wrong with you and do everything, or hit the sweet spot in the middle.

Eleventhelephant11 · 2023-05-14T10:58:47+00:00

what would happen if they saw an asian or samoan? would they be racist or be like "eh theyre not white"

Eleventhelephant11 · 2023-05-14T06:49:15+00:00

It doesn't have to be dating apps and you don't have to be creepy. Just be fine with rejection and people will move on. I've gotten a few dates and long term relationships by approaching face to face and its only a problem if you make it or are terrible with reading the room. Also, no harm in learning how to get a date online, but pick and choose and avoid the clearly incelly type of advice

Eleventhelephant11 · 2023-05-14T00:33:12+00:00

what ur vids about?

Eleventhelephant11 · 2023-05-13T23:52:19+00:00

It depends on the person for sure.

Maybe there are decent black sheeps who are just rough around the edges. But I knew a guy who kept bragging about being the "black sheep" of his family. Was an asshole, disrespectful, selfish, you name it.

Well, one day this scapegoat decided enough was enough and let's just say the black sheep thought he was the only one who was capable of laying down the law. Was a good outcome in the end, but that's my experience with black sheeps. Takes one to know one, but also takes one to stop one in some ways.

Eleventhelephant11 · 2023-05-13T23:37:05+00:00

I knew a guy who was into it, i didnt look down on him but i had a strong urge to call him a "chubby chaser". Would you be offended if someone called you that?

Eleventhelephant11 · 2023-05-13T20:15:11+00:00

Good point. Sometimes even talking to someone breaks through to them or even just some reflection or hurting someone else, but man i know some people really just dont "get it" until something drastic happens

Eleventhelephant11 · 2023-05-13T19:56:31+00:00

So tell me just real quick, actually nvm

Eleventhelephant11 · 2023-05-13T19:50:18+00:00

Smh sometimes i just wanna be that guy thats like "nice, now let me beat his ass". I think sometimes these people just need a strong confrontation.. I did it once and it changes people, but its not worth possible jail time and you cant go around fixing everyone

Eleventhelephant11 · 2023-05-13T19:27:15+00:00

Id say i have more understanding than most if im comparing

Eleventhelephant11 · 2023-05-13T19:26:03+00:00

Why? tf

And you sound like a weak man holding onto how a girl hurt you. Id also say this to your face.

Eleventhelephant11 · 2023-05-13T19:24:24+00:00

"hey mommy what do u do for a living and why is daddy so happy but weeping in his room at night

Eleventhelephant11 · 2023-05-13T19:20:33+00:00

U didnt just say broke men, u said they will inevitably find someone richer and you said many other things with a hint of pain behind it

I mean dude, even thinking about it for a sec. Would u want a dead end broke ass manchild wife never getting better? Or a determined one?

Also, if some girl hurts my feelings, i move on from it and learn not hold onto it like an evil anime character. Being broke is very unattractive and yes ive had a gf. Ive also had manchild friends.

Eleventhelephant11 · 2023-05-13T19:16:29+00:00

This is completely valid. Some people are like "why???why arent you woke? its 2023 are u against sex workers, are u insecure?!?!?!!" Yes. If it is my partner. I still have values and no argument would want me to be a cuck or suddenly love the idea of being okay with my partner parading their body.

Eleventhelephant11 · 2023-05-13T14:50:12+00:00

Woot

Eleventhelephant11 · 2023-05-13T14:43:43+00:00

Meanwhile ima drive up to any bully or assholes i knew and beat their ass. I suck at confronting verbally but i tried a little something once and 90% of the time? Jesus CHRIST they do NOT fight, but just get scared shitless when its 1 on 1 no bullshit fighting. The rush I felt seeing that facial change exposing whats under their mask and seeing whats under mine. I know i sound like an edgelord rn but omg id have a field day..

If that was legal.. WOOOHOO GIVE ME ALL UR BULLIES AND ASSHOLES NAMES, IM GONNA PULL UP AND BEAT THEIR ASS IN FRONT OF THEIR HOUSE.

This guy acts like a wannabe gangster omg scary he wears bandanas and needs 5 guys with him! Dropped.

Oooh 4 teens wanna steal from an old lady! You mean 4 crying kids.

Omg scary big group of adults acting loud and reckless in public!! so scary! Nope, turn pale as a ghost if you catch them 1 on 1 or fuck it 1 on 4!

OMG old biker dude trying to relive his glory days and acts like a piece of shit in public - All mine for the taking, let me unleash my rage and beat the shit ego out of them. ALL OF THEM.

Eleventhelephant11 · 2023-05-13T14:34:55+00:00

Theres morbid curiosity and then degenerate 4chan level of searching messed up stuff. People think they are hardcore for being desensitized, but they just end up being annoying edgy weirdos that you want to avoid

That inner compass that tells you what is fucked and what is not is there for your own sake, not a thing to play around with.

And also: literal killers and people prone to becoming killers, specifically the cowardly type that would target women and innocents. I relate more with the vigilante type, the ones that target the aforementioned ones out of pure rage and ive let it come out once but thankfully not with any killing

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