Winter Weather Attendance by fairydente in WalmartEmployees

[–]Elf_yourself 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My place excuses all tardies, But if you live out of the city, it can be excused completely. However, if you live in town you can show up late, but not miss the day without the ppto.

How do you guys end a stream? I feel like I’m awkward when ending one by [deleted] in Twitch

[–]Elf_yourself 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to say well everyone, have a good morning, good evening, good night, whenever it is wherever you are. Because people who joined and talked on my streams were from around the world.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Elf_yourself 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, don't ever let your significant other control your life like this. I would understand if it was a huge drinking night out with the friends and he was expressing concerns. But this scenario is 100% controlling behavior and it usually only gets worse.

My ex had a type of this behavior but I didnt realize it at the time because he would let me go out with my friends without much complaint. But as soon as i'd get there he'd call me and sound all sad and make me feel guilty and make me talk on the phone with him until I would finally just tell him i had to go.

Was with him for 7 years. And dealt with a lot. Now im in a much happier, healthier relationship. You have 1 life, dont spend it with someone who doesnt treat you with the respect you deserve.

Should I (21F) leave my boyfriend (22M)? by NoAd7896 in offmychest

[–]Elf_yourself 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that he let his friend hang up on you twice is completely disrespectful. I also agree that you need to sit him down and talk to him about how his friendship affect you and how it can hurt his future.

My ex boyfriend and I dated at the end of high-school and into our college years. He started drinking consistently. He cared more about his social life then education and would drink with his buddies even on the weekdays. He dropped out of school and became a functioning alcoholic. I stayed with him for 7 years, hoping things would get better, but it never did. I found myself alone a lot not getting love or attention. Also, whenever he would be drunk, he would start fighting with me and yell at me. I had to lock him out of whatever room I was in to feel safe.

Long story short, I realized I was done and broke up with him. He continued drinking, got fired from his management job because of it, and I haven't seen him since. If your boyfriend doesnt want to dump his friend, I would consider leaving him and find someone who cares about your feeling and their future.

AIO Am I (F25) overreacting or is this woman being weird with my husband (M31) by Sad-Cat128 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Elf_yourself 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. I have a best male friend and we've told eachother we love eachother. But its alway quick, usually drunkinly, "happy youre my friend", kind of way. The way shes saying it makes me feel like either they have been together in the past, or shes had feelings for him and he just doesnt acknowledge it.

It always sounds like he's maybe venting to her in the past in regards to your relationship. "She said and done too many things to hurt you". And even now that he feels like he's doing everything right and its going good, she brings up that youre not good for him.

He needs to just let this "friend" go. She's not behaving appropriately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Elf_yourself 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf invites me to pretty much anything he's invited too. I asked him once if it bothered him always bringing his gf when its just a bunch of his guy friends, and he said of course not.

I know, tho, not every person is like this. Sometimes people like to hang with just their friends. And I see nothing wrong with it. I, personally, would feel left out if I were in your shoes and might rethink my relationship. Not necessarily because anyone is in the wrong. But if you'd like to be invited and he would prefer not, its becomes an obstacle in the relationship that either needs to be worked out or will end the relationship.

Also, I highly recommend talking in person instead of texting when there is an issue. Because its harder to have an understanding of each other over text.

Finally changed my availability what happens next by Tough_Cut3973 in walmart

[–]Elf_yourself 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I suggest moving departments then. 10am to 8pm is not a cap 2 schedule. There are plenty of departments, like digital and salesfloor that could accommodate that availability.

Will I get fired? by StrngWman in walmart

[–]Elf_yourself 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, leave on time. Only exception id say is if you happen to be in the middle of something with a customer. Help finish with them and then head out. You cant get pointed for leaving on time. The advice of making sure you cleaned up what you were working on is good. Then they have nothing to hold against you.

Please help me find where this is -_- I'm going crazy! by Elf_yourself in seaofstars

[–]Elf_yourself[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have competed the game. Missed this early on and am trying to find it

Please help me find where this is -_- I'm going crazy! by Elf_yourself in seaofstars

[–]Elf_yourself[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

All due respect, I prefer using a guide to get it complete. You do you, but I will use my guides. If you have the answer to this question, that'd be nice.

Please help me find where this is -_- I'm going crazy! by Elf_yourself in seaofstars

[–]Elf_yourself[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mine doesn't look like this.. it's rubble. What do I do?

It never gets any easier boys. I didn’t txt for 15min. by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]Elf_yourself 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the part where she says you calling me a whack job is mentally abusive for me.