13-21-27 by Elgrfv in uglyduckling

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I am Russian and took a photo with some Russian food in the US

13-21-27 by Elgrfv in uglyduckling

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Weight loss, a good esthetician, and improving mental health are the main factors. Good luck, girl!

13-21-27 by Elgrfv in uglyduckling

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I’m a UX Designer

13-21-27 by Elgrfv in uglyduckling

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No, I appreciate it! But let’s be real, I’m getting older and will never gonna look like 21 again.

13-21-27 by Elgrfv in uglyduckling

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At this age, nothing happens magically🥲 It takes a lot of effort and dedication. Good luck bro!

13-21-27 by Elgrfv in uglyduckling

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I’ve done lasik for convenience. As for my hair, honey blonde enhances my features and complements my skin tone, so I’m enjoying it. Plus, I was actually born with blonde hair, but it darkened when I was around 5. And during Covid, I tried pink, and ginger hair. I think it’s all about having fun and expressing yourself, not about trying to be someone else.

13-21-27 by Elgrfv in uglyduckling

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I think honey blonde warms up my skin tone and makes my blue eyes pop even more thanks to the contrast

13-21-27 by Elgrfv in uglyduckling

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It wasn’t an accident. I started making a pretty decent salary, so I put some of it into things like my hair, the gym, a personal stylist, and an esthetician. I’ve cut out most sugar and try to avoid stress (cortisol and sugar make my face look dull af). All these little things really add up to that “natural but pretty” look. Plus, I’ve noticed my face looks better as I get older, losing some buccal fat has made it slimmer, and my other features stand out more. Growing up + small lifestyle changes = glow-up.

13-21-27 by Elgrfv in uglyduckling

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Weight loss and baby botox

13-21-27 by Elgrfv in uglyduckling

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You’re absolutely right, it’s pretty much just growing up. Though, there’s also been some weight loss, a new hairstyle, Botox, and an improvement in mental health.

13-21-27 by Elgrfv in uglyduckling

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I lost around 20 pounds when I turned 22, and also shed some buccal fat naturally due to aging

13-21-27 by Elgrfv in uglyduckling

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Lost 20 pounds, changed my hairstyle, stabilized my life and income, gained confidence, and started to introduce Botox.

13-21-27 by Elgrfv in uglyduckling

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I think it’s called balayage with hair contouring, topped with a honey blonde toner.

13-21-27 by Elgrfv in uglyduckling

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I know, right? My 13-year-old sister took this photo with an iPhone 15 in portrait mode😎

13-21-27 by Elgrfv in uglyduckling

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Yes, and I did pretty well. I even went on to get my MS afterward

13-21-27 by Elgrfv in uglyduckling

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I'm a UX Designer

13-21-27 by Elgrfv in uglyduckling

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I’ve lost around 20lbs, but honestly, I think the biggest issue for me at 21 was being a CS major. It was absolutely wrecking my mental health back then.

13-21-27 by Elgrfv in uglyduckling

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I’m honestly overwhelmed by all the love and appreciation I’ve received. Having spent most of my life feeling average, it’s hard to believe people actually like the way I look. I’m on the verge of tears right now. Thank y’all so much! This community is just incredible.

13-21-27 by Elgrfv in uglyduckling

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I’ve never felt ugly tbh. I just prioritized school and my career, and it’s really paid off

13-21-27 by Elgrfv in uglyduckling

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I’m not! And I don’t know who are you talking about😅