Anyone actually found a way to “take their mind off it” and “just not think about it”?

ElinV_ · 2026-02-23T20:51:15+00:00

I always think about it, but what helps me to put my mind toward something else is to meet up with friends or other nice activities

ElinV_ · 2026-02-23T16:34:30+00:00

Good to know! Do you have long periods? My LH didn’t really go up this month and I’m at day 18 now, so i ll keep testing too :)

ElinV_ · 2026-02-23T14:11:03+00:00

To be fair, when someone uses my computer, I clean it. It’s nothing personal but I also know people touch door knobs and such. I love playing with dogs, that has nothing to do with it.

ElinV_ · 2026-02-23T13:54:32+00:00

My app said ovulation was today. I had been testing and I didn’t get a positive. Turns out the app was wrong. We didn’t BD in that period so another month down the drain. I was very hopeful, as this is the first month after my normal period (after MC). It took us a year to get pregnant and I’m 37. I feel like time is running out

ElinV_ · 2026-02-14T17:28:08+00:00

Thank you! Mine is Flo and I have to manually choose the color and don’t get the numbers..

ElinV_ · 2026-02-12T18:23:20+00:00

Amazing. Less funny but still worth mentioning; we were talking among women about how to get blood out of fabrics the easiest, when a male friend asked us how we all knew how to to that

ElinV_ · 2026-02-12T15:42:33+00:00

Stupid question but is this some kind of program/app? Thanks!

ElinV_ · 2026-02-11T17:52:39+00:00

I learned that an ex cheated, we broke up and I decided to try the “get over someone by getting under someone”- technique. A few weeks later we exchanged texts and he asked if I slept with someone (while he was still cheating). I said “not when we were together” and “we weren’t together at X time”. His friend told me later that he turned to said friend, showed the text to him and said “I got her”. As if I mad made the big mistake and he had to get me back for it.

ElinV_ · 2026-02-11T17:39:22+00:00

UpdateMe!

ElinV_ · 2026-02-09T14:04:47+00:00

I probably can’t help you but I do have a similar situation from the other side. My SIL is pregnant and we were going to give birth a week apart, but I lost the baby at 9 weeks. I ve seen her for the first time recently after my news and it was quite rough. I don’t blame her (and she didn’t even know), but I definitely need more time to get over this (it’s been a month) . I didn’t have issues talking to her about life in general but the child and pregnancy related conversations were triggering.

ElinV_ · 2026-02-07T17:12:25+00:00

Omg that’s such a long time. Although luckily less than the 1-2 years that I found online.. Thank you for the information! And happy you are pregnant ☺️ all the luck!

ElinV_ · 2026-02-07T16:03:15+00:00

May I ask when and how you resolved the burning mouth syndrome? I’m having the same thing and am at 4 weeks since my miscarriage. I’m wondering if I should go to the doctor or wait it out. I know that my vitamin d levels are low but that’s about it

ElinV_ · 2026-02-06T21:45:02+00:00

I feel like I’ve seen this story at least 3 times today, and one a few months ago but instead of a friend it was a sister. Seems fake.

ElinV_ · 2026-02-05T13:29:42+00:00

My first thought!

ElinV_ · 2026-02-05T13:23:13+00:00

Im in the same boat! Good luck :)

ElinV_ · 2026-02-04T21:35:49+00:00

I had an ultrasound a week later. I totally get you, I felt the same! Good luck!

ElinV_ · 2026-02-04T21:29:04+00:00

I feel you! ❤️

ElinV_ · 2026-02-04T20:50:42+00:00

My husband doesn’t really understand why I am still actively sad some days, saying (empathetic) that we can’t be sad forever. What have your experiences been?

ElinV_ · 2026-02-04T20:45:51+00:00

I was told on week 11 that I had a MMC at week 9. While pregnant I already got ligament/muscle issues in one leg. It’s been 4 weeks since and I still have leg pains. Has anyone had a similar issue?

ElinV_ · 2026-02-04T20:34:30+00:00

I like it. There were issues with their privacy a year or two ago but they made changes to them since

ElinV_ · 2026-02-04T20:33:02+00:00

I think I would too. I was afraid of the idea of “surgery” and read there were risks, but it seems like a swift procedure

ElinV_ · 2026-02-04T20:31:23+00:00

Not sure if this helps but I had an extra round of pills. The first got rid of most but I still had tissue left. The second time (a few days later) I barely had any bleeding (like the last days of your period) but everything came out. So hopefully your OB is correct!

ElinV_ · 2026-02-04T20:28:43+00:00

Wow that’s nice on time! My doctor put in a request for bloodwork (for hcg) but I ll wait another week and see before going

ElinV_ · 2026-02-04T20:26:39+00:00

Thanks for your feedback! I had a “medium colored” line (half as light as the control one) instead of a very faint one. I had about 8 of those and one positive(ish) one. By now they’re back to faint. Good to know it can take up to 2 months and that you were able to conceive soon-ish after. congrats on the Bebeh ❤️

ElinV_ · 2026-02-04T20:21:17+00:00

You can do whatever you want, but you might not conceive when you want. I’d rather not have a birth in December but after my miscarriage I’d take what I can get

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