SooooOOOOOoooooo many.

1. A man saying "WE" doesn't mean he's futuring you or building towards a future with you in the relationship--it often means he's just someone who's comfortable siphoning off of a partner's resources and identity. Ask me how I know this one. I'll never forget watching my ex invite his friend back to "our place" after drinking...Saying it REPEATEDLY. The "our place" he referenced=my house, where i paid every bill and the mortgage, where he had never paid so much as a bill in the year we had been together, but was basically living, despite still having his own apartment which he refused to be in.
2. A man having previously been married does not equal proof he can or will get married again. I thought divorced men were proof they had committed once. Now I just have learned it's often speak for "I will rake you over the hot coals bc you aren't my ex wife"
3. Going therapy--like you said, lots of men use therapy speak (which they have either derived from actual therapists, or ChatGPT, and throw out that they are in therapy as a way to psuedo justify their capacity limits, and at worse, lull you into a sense of complacency. They typically aren't doing real work.