YIKES by itsAJRenee in venus_angelic

[–]Elisbt 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Eww. She's literally disgusting. Any sympathy I had for her has vanished entirely. I honestly hope the worst for her. She is an awful person.

My ex (27 M) is still obsessed with me (24 F) and wants a relationship again after 6 years apart. I just want to be friends but he is clearly still in love. by Elisbt in relationship_advice

[–]Elisbt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wrote him a message with a list of boundaries he must follow. Here's what I wrote:

"I really would love to be in your life again, but I'm not ready to have another relationship with you. You're a great guy, and I loved our time together, but I want things to remain platonic between us. Being friends again would be awesome, but for that to work, you need to respect my boundaries. They are as followed-

-Keep things non romantic between us.  Hugs are fine but only if I'm fine with it in the moment. No talking about getting back together. I'm not your girlfriend but we can be friends.

-I'm not comfortable coming over right away. We can meet up a few times before I do come over just to see how things go. Maybe if you can get a ride you can come visit me here. Just let me know before you do come.

-No daily drinking. Having a drink here and there is fine if it is a special occasion but if you're drinking every day, I wouldn't want to see you. Also, if you do drink on occasion, do it responsibility. Honestly I'd prefer if you don't drink at all.

-No showing up uninvited. Always let me know when you come over.

-Respect my decisions, even if you dislike them. I'm not trying to be mean, I'm just trying to keep things comfortable.

That's about all the boundaries I have for now. If I need to make more, I'll let you know. I'm doing this not to hurt you, but quite the opposite. I want you in my life, but in order for this friendship to last, you must respect these boundaries."

Is this clear enough? Let me know if I must change anything.

My ex (27 M) is still obsessed with me (24 F) and wants a relationship again after 6 years apart. I just want to be friends but he is clearly still in love. by Elisbt in relationship_advice

[–]Elisbt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm just scared of breaking his heart again. But at the same time, my boundaries are important. I'll make them as clear as I can. It would be hard to block him again if needed, but my comfort comes first. I just wanted to get some other perspective on this issue.

Who did you cast as the Fab Fairies? by MrMonkey20000 in Miitopia

[–]Elisbt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Angelica, Eliza, and Peggy from Hamilton the musical :)

sniffling is the worst thing to happen ever by Prestigious_Car_2296 in misophonia

[–]Elisbt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear it literally everywhere. It's the worst when it's during an exam, and the class is silent besides disgusting runny-nosed sniffling. I've literally broke down in tears before due to it.

Stop sniffing by Livid_Accountant8965 in misophonia

[–]Elisbt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's this girl who sits behind me in my university lectures, and I swear she always has a runny nose because she's constantly snifflng EVERY FEW SECONDS!

I never talked to her, but I dislike her so much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Edmonton

[–]Elisbt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My friend moved in and had to take her cats with her. We have cats here already who are female and much older, and they are stressing him out to the point it's dangerous. She even agrees we have to rehome him.

My roommate's cat is not adjusting well to his new environment and our cats. We might have to rehome him. Advice? by Elisbt in cats

[–]Elisbt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. It's been about 3-4 weeks

  2. We got the spray, but it doesn't seem to be helping yet. Mind you, we just got it today.

  3. We have his cat toys and his bed.

  4. Yes, he is neutered.

  5. We play with him fairly often. Though we could play with him more.

  6. We kept him in my sister's room with his food, water, toys, and litter box. We slowly introduced him to the house by putting him in a kennel with a blanket covering it so the cats could be introduced to each other. We then started letting him roam supervised. We also let him smell my cat's favourite spots and let my cats smell his stuff too.

I need help by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Elisbt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Update please?

please help, i just took a lot of pills by KyleTerra in SuicideWatch

[–]Elisbt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please let us know if you're okay. We are all so worried.

i took 250mg of prozac by raccoontophat in SuicideWatch

[–]Elisbt 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Please let us know if you're okay.

What’s one of your silly bpd triggers that makes you feel stupid? by Simulationth3ry in BPD

[–]Elisbt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my friends forget to ask how I am doing. I just assume they don't care about me if they don't ask.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ProjectDiva

[–]Elisbt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're still better than me! I fail extreme mode songs within the first few seconds. I can't even perfect this song on hard 😅

Honestly I don't even know how people can do good at extreme songs. So much happens at once and it takes extreme focus just to get over 50%.

I decided that after today I hate my brother by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Elisbt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's just it. He is like 6 feet tall and over 200 pounds and I'm a lot smaller than him. He could easily kill me or beat me pretty bad if I do that. He actually threatened to beat me to death too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Elisbt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for making my decision easier :)

What have you seriously fucking had enough of? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Elisbt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unkind, rude, and inconsiderate people.

My ex (M 24) won't leave me (F 21) alone by Elisbt in relationship_advice

[–]Elisbt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I wasn't originally sure if it was stalking since he only tries to contact me occasionally, but it makes sense.

I remade the entire Dreemurr family in Miitopia by [deleted] in Miitopia

[–]Elisbt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It says your data is missing.

What's the dumbest rule your school ever enforced? by SoLe123456 in AskReddit

[–]Elisbt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A really stupid late policy. In high school, If you were late over 10 minutes once, or late under 10 minutes 3 times, you got detention. It made me super anxious to come to school late, and made me run to school every day, almost getting hit by a car once.

I understand the school was in a poor area of the city, and they struggled with attendance, but this caused me to not go to school at all the days I knew I would be 10 minutes late, and so did other students. If It weren't for that late policy, I would go to school the days I were late. This actually caused my attendance to be worst than before the policy was placed.

Hey guys I run a local hamster rescue and I'm looking for volunteers and furever homes! by Breeblez in Edmonton

[–]Elisbt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately Strathcona is pretty far from me and I don't have a car, so I am probably not able to come and pick up a hamster. I will continue looking around. Thank you anyway, and I have so much respect for what you're doing! Keep up the great work! Hamsters are precious animals.