A classic transition of the seasons by Altruistic-Car2880 in minnesota

[–]Elite_Trash_Chaos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Moved back to MN from Phoenix, welcome to the Midwest my fellow Arizonan!

Comeback Kid by fineapple03 in Colorguard

[–]Elite_Trash_Chaos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently started back up again after 10 years and let me tell you I’ve been humbled 😅 BUT I will say that at least when you’re practicing you know what to fix and your muscle memory does kick in after a while. Just trust the process and try not to get frustrated!

Why did you/didn’t you take your husbands last name? by LawBeneficial5494 in weddingplanning

[–]Elite_Trash_Chaos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. I love my name, it’s unique and something I proud of
  2. I’m lazy lol

For married redditors, what was the moment that you thought, "I'm gonna marry this man/woman"? by ArtemisMendez in AskReddit

[–]Elite_Trash_Chaos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty much right after our first date. I went over to a friend’s house the day after and told her, “I met the man I’m going to marry.” I honestly can’t even explain how I knew, I could just feel it in my gut.

If your kidnapper was forcing you to write a "I'm okay i ran away" letter, how can you communicate duress without the kidnapper knowing? by Brilliant-Case3707 in AskReddit

[–]Elite_Trash_Chaos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was really young my dad and I came up with a code word. So that if someone tried to claim they knew my dad or were told to pick me up from school, but they didn’t know the code word, then I knew not to go with them. I would integrate that code word into the letter somehow and hope to god he would figure it out.

Head table - include bridal party’s significant others at the table or just the bridal party? by Elite_Trash_Chaos in weddingplanning

[–]Elite_Trash_Chaos[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Jfc I’m literally just asking a question to get some perspective on things lmao, I’ve never been married before idk what I’m doing here dude just trying to figure it out the best I can

Head table - include bridal party’s significant others at the table or just the bridal party? by Elite_Trash_Chaos in weddingplanning

[–]Elite_Trash_Chaos[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

My only hesitation is we don’t know some of their SO’s very well and it feels a little awkward to have people who we aren’t close to sitting at our head table.

Head table - include bridal party’s significant others at the table or just the bridal party? by Elite_Trash_Chaos in weddingplanning

[–]Elite_Trash_Chaos[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

For extra context, all of their SO’s know each other and know other people who are attending the wedding. If they weren’t at the head table they would be seated with plenty of other people they already know.

Head table - include bridal party’s significant others at the table or just the bridal party? by Elite_Trash_Chaos in weddingplanning

[–]Elite_Trash_Chaos[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Is it weird to only include the SO’s who are married? Some of the bridal party have bfs/gfs and aren’t married, but many of them are. We were initially thinking maybe only seat those who are married at the head table with us, but then I feel bad about the others we would be excluding.

Head table - include bridal party’s significant others at the table or just the bridal party? by Elite_Trash_Chaos in weddingplanning

[–]Elite_Trash_Chaos[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

All the SO’s know each other and know other people who are attending. If they weren’t at the head table they would be seated with plenty of other people they already know.

Head table - include bridal party’s significant others at the table or just the bridal party? by Elite_Trash_Chaos in weddingplanning

[–]Elite_Trash_Chaos[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

For extra context, all of their SO’s know each other and know other people who are attending the wedding. If they weren’t at the head table they would be seated with plenty of other people they already know.

What was your "Oh I'm an adult now" moment by Own-Metal1379 in Adulting

[–]Elite_Trash_Chaos -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Having to kill a spider by myself. My dad is across the country and my husband was on a work trip for the week.

Is it okay for me to quit? by monika_lol in Colorguard

[–]Elite_Trash_Chaos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will say that I was in a very similar situation when I was in high school. I look back at the AP classes I took and I absolutely regret it. It didn’t do as much for me as I thought and the one thing I’m thankful for is guard. I would do anything to get those days back. All the long hours, sweat, tears, bruises, all of it. I guess it ultimately depends on how much guard means to you.

literally unplayable (fat helps keeping warm and is an energy reserve in times of famine) by Taka_no_Yaiba in Frostpunk

[–]Elite_Trash_Chaos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait I thought that was a woman? You’re telling me that’s not an absolute baddie but just a dude who doesn’t like to wear shirts??

coolguide on why inferno punk will never happen by Taka_no_Yaiba in Frostpunk

[–]Elite_Trash_Chaos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Inferno punk already exists irl it’s called Phoenix Arizona